(Closed) This is going to sound weird, but post-wedding blues stuff…

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
4799 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Post a recap on here with pictures, other brides are much more interested in, appreciative of, and complimentary about all of those little details!

Post # 4
90 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I want to see pictures! I bet you looked beautiful πŸ™‚

Post # 5
1252 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I agree! Post pictures! And I am sure your husband didn’t mean to hurt your feelings! He was probably too overwhelmed and a little nervous to mention how beautiful you were! Oh stupid men!:) 

Post # 6
110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’d love to see some pictures! I’m sure you looked gorgeous!

Post # 7
301 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Aww, sorry you’re feeling blue. I would too if i didn’t feel awesome the day o fmy wedding to the love of my life. It is such an important day!

Strangely, I felt blue whe I posted my pics on Wedding Bee. Our wededing was great, I got tons of compliments, and I felt amazingly beautiful. But when I didn’t get many response from ladies on here I did feel kind of down. Mine was a low budget wedding, and so I attributed it to that.


Weird thing to feel blue about, I know. But I got over it. It helps that people still compiment me on my wedding, and it’s been almost 8 months.


I suggest posting pics, etc on here as well. Maybe your post will be more popular than mine was. πŸ˜›

Post # 8
600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

If you post pics on here we’ll tell you you’re pretty haha!  I know how you feel mine was only 2 months ago and whils I’m over the moon to be with the love of my life and I wouldn’t change our day for the world I do kinda miss planning the wedding…

Post # 9
2153 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yes…post pics!!! My hubs and I were both really distracted when we got married…it’s easy to look over remembering to say all the right things. 

Post # 10
24 posts
  • Wedding: December 2012

I got married with a five week enegagement because I wanted to marry my husband as soon as possible.  If I could go back, I wouldn’t change a thing… I wouldn’t take away one second of our married life together… BUT, because it happened so quickly, and in the middle of a semester at school, other people planned more of my wedding than I did and I was stressed the whole time.  I loved my wedding and how I looked, but still, part of me wishes I had the experience of planning it exactly to my taste and having everything just right… I understand how you feel.  I imagine you were beautfiul, though!  Pics please!

Post # 11
199 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Post pics!!  People get grumpy and overwhelmed at weddings.  We’ll give you the right reactions πŸ™‚

Post # 12
4042 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Perhaps your new husband was stressed out too and just didn’t have the right words on the tip of his tongue, but if you guys are happy, then your wedding was wonderful πŸ™‚

I think some people want to avoid at all costs saying the wrong thing, or being misinterpreted, so they don’t say anything. I wouldn’t worry too much.

Post # 14
3457 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I hear you.  I always tell the bride she looks beautiful, so I was a little surprised I didn’t hear it much on my day (when I thought I looked good).  I figured it was the one day people would shower me with compliments!  But I just let it go.  I bet if you always went around telling the bride she looked so happy on her wedding day, or so calm or so X, you’d be surprised not to hear that sentiment back much on your day either.  What you often say is what you focus on hearing.

Post # 16
52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

To be honest, my husband didn’t really gush either after our wedding or even during our wedding.  He had so much family drama (on his side) and audio setup problems (before the wedding) that he didn’t really seem happy, which is completely understandable. 


One thing that did make me feel better was what he said after wedding “I was so stressed all the way up to the ceremony, but then when I saw you [walking down the aisle], I remembered what I was there for (aka me) and that all of the other stuff didn’t even matter.” πŸ™‚


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