- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
i have had a pretty bad couple of days.
my longest and closest friend did not choose me to be a bridesmaid. at the same time, this has nothing to do with her wedding.
about a week ago she called me and asked me if my son could be her ring bearer. i said yes. then i asked her if she had chosen her bridesmaids and she said no that “she has so many friends that she couldn’t decide who she would pick and that she has to have her cousin and her fsils in as bridesmaids”. this friend has always beaten around the bush with every situation for the past decade that i have known her.
i was hoping that when she came in town next that she was going to ask me if i would be one.
well i saw 2 nights ago that she tweeted “bridesmaids dresses are coming in! my bffs are going to look so cute”
so i text her and said “so i’m not a bridesmaid?”
i told her it was weird that she wasn’t going to ask me to be a bridesmaid but make me walk down the aisle helping my son and then go find my seat in the crowd. i feel really awkward doing that and i told her.
this girl is the first person i called when my husband and i got engaged and the first person i told when i got pregnant. i have been with her through her parents splitting up and getting back together and failed relationships and anything else that would happen in 8 years.
i thought she felt the same way about me and i guess she doesn’t.
i’m on the younger side (23) and none of the “friends” i have have children or are getting married.
i really don’t want to have a pity party for myself but that’s what this looks like. she was the last close friend that i have had from my childhood and everyone else has just moved on for a lack of better words.
i just feel like she has just been spying on my life and been really nosy instead of actually being my friend.