(Closed) this is in the emotional board cause that's how i feel right now.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5956 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

I’m really sorry that she was so careless with your feelings…that sux.  However you are not powerless in any situation, and if you feel super awkward about towing your son to the rehearsal, and getting him ready and then walking him down the aisle, but not being an actual part of the wedding party,  you can always tell her that this is just not something your comfortable with since your feeling a little like an outsider.  Your feelilngs are valid since perception is reality, just know that it’s ok to be hurt and ok to express those things in a constructive way.

Post # 4
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3078 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I know it sucks, but the fact remains that it’s her wedding and it’s her choice of who she can have in her bridal party.  If you’re not comfortable helping your son down the aisle then don’t have him be a ring bearer.

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