Post # 1
Does anyone else feel like all of their wedding plans are getting hijacked? I feel like since I started planning this, I’ve been so busy trying to meet other people’s requests, or feeling bad when I can’t, that it doesn’t even feel like a wedding I would have planned! Just a stupid rant, I know.
Post # 3
I felt that a lot when I was planning, but in the end the wedding was still beautiful. Sure, I might have done things a little differently, but I was glad to have so much help and support from my family, and it was nice to have them there for me throughout the whole planning process.
Post # 4
Unfortunately I think if you’re having a wedding part of it is being a gracious hostess (though not a doormat). Otherwise everyone would just get hitched by a JOP or priest and be on their merry way.
There’s nothing wrong with saying “I understand, but we’re going to have to do it this way, thanks for being flexible!”
Post # 5
I was having these same thoughts today. I was like what can I do to take back control?!
I think this is why I haven’t been motivated to do anything lately.
Lots of times when people offered something I’d say yes right away without really thinking about it. Now I realize I should of thought about some things before answering.
Oh well what can I do now, just make sure the people that are doing things for us are they way I want.