(Closed) This is not your wedding!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1058 posts
Bumble bee

Geez What a dick, I’m so sorry you have to deal with a drunk bastard. He obviously is not a very happy person and seems to try to live through your FH. Luckily, your FH is taking the heat off of you by putting it on himself. What a good man!

Post # 4
63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow! It’s amazing when I read about all the outrageous behaviour that people have to go through! This chum is absolutely out of line!

My suggestion would be to speak to Fiance about your concerns and suggest that maybe Fiance talk to his friend. After all, they are supposed to be good friends and all… I’m guessing he resents your presence in FI’s life and is trying to make life difficult for you.

Post # 5
359 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@muckmoo1: I agree, you Fiance sounds like a really good man! And this other guy sounds like he never left highschool, or dated anyone for that matter, obviosly he has no clue about love and respect, i almost pity the man. Hope (and I am sure it will) your day is beautiful and beer-free. 😛

Post # 6
251 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

This guy has issues – many guys don’t like it when their best buddies are in serious relationships, let alone getting married. They know that once that happens, they can no longer gallivant like single guys and your Fiance will have responsibilities as a husband. The fact that he has already said your Fiance chooses you over him (typical), indicates that he has this fear.

Your Fiance needs to give him an ultimatum: Either get his act together, or don’t come  to the wedding. Simple as that.

Post # 8
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

this guy isnt a friend!  friends dont tell your Girlfriend that she is unattractive nor disrespect your Fiance about the wedding party/guest lists/plans ect – i wouldnt even invite the guy to be honest,  anyone that requires that much hard work to remain on pleasant terms with is someone that you can cut out of your life


Post # 9
658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

OMG! What a jerk! Big props to FI! And (((((HUGS))))) to you!

Post # 10
73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

What an ass! Honestly,  photo copy a picture of his ugly face and give it to security or maybe your wedding planner/coordinators husband or something just in case he shows up drunk or something.  I’ve seen this happen-as a former caterer at weddings in NYC-and they’ll simple escort him out. OR even a big waiter guy….no worries, your day will be gorgeous and this guy sounds like the biggest loser….who might be gay and afraid to admit it. Just my thought, I’ve seen it happen many times before.

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