- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I’m not sure if this is the correct board to post this on, so please move it if necessary.
First things first. I LOVE my SO with all my heart. He is truly amazing and I’d never do anything to hurt him.
I was wondering if anyone else has ever been in this situation. I have worked with a male co-worker of mine for 9 years. We started working in the same office on the same day and have been friends ever since. He’s about 45 yrs. old (although he doesn’t look a day over 35, and VERY fit for his age. We talk about everything, from tattoo’s to relationships, etc. Anyhoo, while talking about tattoo’s one day he showed me one on his chest. I had no idea he was so ripped! Wow. So I told my girlfriend about it (also a co-worker) and she told me something about my male co-worker that made me look at him completely different. She told me that apparently “he’s crazy in bed, like, p*rn star sex and HUNG” (ok maybe this should go in the ‘intimacy section’, lol).
I’m not attracted to him, but the thought of him doing um… ‘things’ makes me look at him differently. And every once in a while I get this ‘vibe’ from him too, as if he’s attracted to me or something. I dunno. My girlfriend senses it too. Now, I would never do anything. EVER. But has anyone ever had this happen? Sometimes I can’t even look at him without blushing.