(Closed) This is why you shouldn't overshare your wedding planning details :/

posted 5 years ago in Dress
  • poll: The dress does emphasise the tummy
    Your friend is right : (40 votes)
    14 %
    Don't listen to her : (246 votes)
    86 %
  • Post # 3
    1896 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @HerRoyalLeak:  You rock that dress!  Your friend is just having a massive brain fart. For some reason weddings bring out the inconsiderate clod in otherwise kind and supporttive people.

    Post # 4
    543 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    You look amazing in your dress…And I truly like both of the dresses (yours and the inspiration dress)..What is the brand of your inspiration gown?

    Post # 5
    567 posts
    Busy bee

    The pleats work!  And where is your tummy?! I can’t see it 🙂 Honestly.

    Post # 7
    473 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Honestly, I think that you look lovely and I love your dress! The sleeves are so pretty and I cannot see your stomach at all! It is beautiful 🙂

    Post # 8
    968 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    people can say some really STUPID things… I am sure she didnt mean any harm, but tune her out…. you look beautiful in that dress and I see no belly.

    Post # 9
    1877 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @HerRoyalLeak:  You look beautiful and I doubt she meant any harm by it.  Try not to let it bother you and enjoy your beautiful dress. 

    Post # 10
    13017 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    It looks awesome — even after you said it, I still don’t see where she thinks it makes you look like you have a belly!  Seriously – just ignore her and continue to rock your dress!

    Post # 11
    4563 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Looks great to me, and to be honest, you look every bit as good as the model does.

    Post # 12
    444 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Yes it does draw the eye a bit BUT, your stomach looks flat on that image no signs of a belly as PPs have said, some people just talk without thinking and sometimes when a little envy is involved their comments seem to only be negative ones.  You look great, you look slim and actually pleats like that can cover an existing tummy as its volume seems to be the pleats and not a tummy underneath (not saying you have a belly, just in general). Smile 

    Even if you did have a belly and YOU liked the dress that would be totally respectable at the end of the day you are marrying the person you love in a dress that you love and he will love, as long as you feel beautiful, that is the only thing that matters. Smile

    Post # 13
    373 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @HerRoyalLeak:  That dress is absolutely gorgeous on you. 

    Post # 14
    2604 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    @HerRoyalLeak:  WHAT tummy? You look beautiful. And perfectly slim.

    Your “friend” that made the comment is a tactless and possibly mean spirited bitch.

    Post # 15
    27 posts
    • Wedding: August 2013

    You look absolutely lovely, and I see nothing at all unflattering about the design on your figure.

    It is difficult to understand the motivation behind such a comment. I’m not sure if you are quoting her verbatim, but from what you are saying, it does seem at best insensitive, and at worst intentionally hurtful. You said that you have not been sharing your wedding plans – could she be feeling resentful that you didn’t include her in your initial dress selection process? It almost seems a little “passive-aggressive” on her part.

    My personal opinion is that if you are in a bridal party, your constructive criticism might be welcome at the very beginning of a bride’s search for a dress. But saying anything negative about a bride’s gown when she has already made her decision and is happy with it, is not something a friend would do. Perhaps I am reading too much into this, but I suspect this might not actually have anything to do with your dress, but rather her own attention-seeking issues and/or unhappiness. Possibly even jealousy. Or perhaps she is just not very bright :p

    Post # 16
    1078 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    You looke AMAZING, you know sometimes claws come out when your doing good… its sad but some girls revert to highschool … like you remember when you get ready and there be that one girl who told you to wear the bad outfit b.c. she didnt want you to look better then her…. i am guessing that girl is single, or dating but not where she wants to be or with the wrong guy or she married and bitter her wedding is over 


    you look wonderful don’t let bad vibes leek into your mind and ruin your happy enjoy it 

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