(Closed) This lady assumed she was contracted for my wedding

posted 8 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
Member
1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

That is bizarre!  Ok, yes, it would have made everything easier if you had just sent an email saying you were going another direction, but how could she assume you had booked her if there was no contract, deposit, or even any contact until now?!  You shouldn’t really feel guilty for this one and you certainly don’t owe her anything!

Post # 4
Member
2867 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I think she’s just assuming. I’d apologize for not letting her know but don’t feel too bad about it. She should have followed up with you when she got offered other jobs – that’s normal business procedure.

Post # 5
Member
3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

How strange. That is really her issue not yours.

Post # 6
Member
1398 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Haha 5 days before the wedding she should have had a lot more things discussed with you if she was actually booked, thats ridiculous of her to assume. Camrie’s right, just call/email and say you’re sorry but there was a misunderstanding and that you weren’t booked. After that, you can block her number and never worry about it again 🙂

Post # 8
Member
396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

that is sooo weird! It’s her own fault honestly, she should never have assumed because everyone know’s what happens when you assume things! Plus with no contract signed she can’t really say anything to you, and if you didn’t respond to her e-mails ect she should have gotten a little clue that you weren’t interested!

Post # 9
Member
1120 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

I don’t think you need to feel guilty.

Sure, it would have been great to let her know you’d decided on another vendor, but it’s odd that she would think there was a booking just because you asked if she was available.

Post # 10
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3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

That’s her bad. I think it would have been a courtesy to give her a call, but by no means a necessity. If it were me I wouldn’t even bother with any more contact.

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