- 8 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
So ladies a lot of you have been giving me great advice in the past few weeks regarding a bridal party member and whether or not to kick her and her bf out. Well. It happened. && we did!
Let me start by my fi and i both have been calling and texting everyday over the week to just strike up conversation (we did not want to talk about wedding stuff first we wanted to ease into that) well guess what!
NO ANSWER! Yupp seriously all week no answer.
Than we let it rest yesterday. & Fiance said he would try one last time to get ahold of his guy and i would attempt to get ahold of my girl today.
We did && absolutely nothing. So with that our last option was the one we didn’t want to use but if it came to it, which it did, we would. The email. because sadly we know them enough that they check their email everyday even if they ignore us completely.
We sent the email out :
F & C,
We wish this was a better email but as of right now we are asking you to both step-down out of the bridal party.
We know life happens and you guys are really busy dealing with your own stuff but we don’t want to add stress to your life right now, and our wedding planning is moving very fast and we are going to need our whole bridal party by our sides for the next month leading up to the wedding which sadly we need to know we can count on you but as of right now that is not the case, but at the same time if you’re so busy it would be unfair of us to take you two away from your life.
Again, we are sorry it had to come to this. We will kindly mail Cheryl’s dress so you may have it because you paid for it.
Phillip & Tiane.
So we sent this about 3pm today. We were very upset it had come to an email because we as straight forward people would have rather done it over a phone conversation or in person but seeing how we just got ignored completely it came to this.
Then about 5pm i FINALLY got a text from C. wanna take a guess what it said??
It didn’t say anything about sorry for not being apart of it ect. it only said
” Please don’t mail me the dress. I won’t ever have any use for it. Thank you.”
Yupp thats about it. So thats that. && time to move on