(Closed) This may be a touchy subject but i wanted to share…

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Sorry, but I think that email comes across harsh & immature and I personally think you were out of line. However, that’s over and done now. I’m guessing her response was just because she didn’t know what else to say…you two definitely owe her the cost of the dress. I suggest mailing her a check.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@les105:  +1…and talk about run-on sentences… πŸ™

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@les105:  Agreed.  Yikes – I wouldn’t know what to say if I had gotten an email like that.  If you knew they both check their email every day, I would have tried sending them an email, like, “Hey, we’ve been trying to get in touch with you, can you call me when you get a chance?” 

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@prisigtr:  I noticed that, too, and isn’t it funny how when you read run on sentences you read them like the person talking just isn’t taking a breath like even when you know there should be a period and a breath like right now and there’s not do you ever hold your own breath while reading them it’s funny because at the end it feels like you may have ran a marathon!

 

Wheeew. πŸ˜›

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

@DrTeeth:  Lol, yup, you hit the nail on the head…I had a glass of wine and reading your sentence was like gasping. πŸ˜›

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I really don’t like the idea of e-mailing friends about things like this. However, since the damage is done, I guess all you can do is move on.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Personally, I would have tried to find out what was going on before kicking them out like that.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

i read your last post about this, and you know what? Im glad you kicked them out.

They couldnt answer ANYTHING until you sent that email? srsly? gosh

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

You are well within in your rights to ask them to step down – I would too.

It is ludacris, however, to expect them to pay for anything bridal party related if they are no longer in the bridal party. Are you seriously not going to reimburse her for the dress? 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Well yes, your sentences were a bit long. But considering how both of you tried over and over again to contact them and got no response – I think the e-mail was the way to go. It IS kind of amazing that when you finally asked them to step down, you got a response! Methinks they saw and knew about every time you tried to contact them but ignored you. Good riddance!

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@prisigtr:  That was the FIRST thing I noticed while reading the OP! Holy run-on sentences.

Otherwise, I have no comment about the email because I have not been following your previous posts. At least you won’t have to worry about them anymore πŸ™‚

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