(Closed) This might be juvenile…..

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
182 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Hired hall

Sounds to me that her MOh may be a little jealous of your friendship, and could be trying to drive a wedge. I would just talk to your friend about it- not in a confrontational way, but just say “I feel we’ve become a bit distanced since the wedding, and I don’t want to lose our friendship, so I just wanted to let you know how important you are to me and ask if there’s anything I can do to make sure everything is alright between us?”? And be sure not to mention anything about her Maid/Matron of Honor, as that could rub her the wrong way and give her the wrong impression of why you are talking to her. Make sure you emphasise that it’s because you feel your friendship together is important. Honesty is the best policy 🙂 

Post # 5
6386 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@TheOkieWifey:  Did something happen between you and her MOH?  It seems strange that she would delete you just for posting engagement photos.  I agree with TheLawrenceBride, talk to your friend and just be honest.

Post # 6
714 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@TheOkieWifey:  It’s not childish or juvenile to get your feelings hurt. It’s how you react to them that can be mature or juvenile. So far, it sounds pretty mature to me.

Just for perspective: I randomly texted a friend last night asking if she would make it to our Christmas party next weekend. She had no idea what I was talking about…because I forgot to invite her on Facebook. It happens and luckily I caught it this time, but if I hadn’t texted her, she may have gotten her feelings hurt. Try and keep that in mind when you talk to her. It could have been accidental instead of intentional.

Post # 7
1708 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@TheOkieWifey:  that isn’t childish – it is very hurtful not to be invited when everyone else is. If you aren’t good at confrontation, would you consider writing a short email and just ask?

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