(Closed) This time last year…my ex husband left.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Living well/being happy is the best revenge. No one has any right to judge your decisions or the way you are living your life. You sound like you are in an amazing place now and cheers to you for that! You are stronger, happier, healthier, and wiser for all that you went through. You deserve every ounce of happiness and love that you feel. Never let anyone tell you differently.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Forget what other people may say, they aren’t living your life for you. It sounds like everything started working out for you once your ex left the picture – it is the universe showing you that you are now on the right path! Good luck, and celebrate the anniversary of the start of your new, wonderful life!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

i haven’t experienced this but I just wanted to say that i’m glad you’re happy!

Post # 7
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635 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My dad left my mom after he had cheated on her for 19 years, and they were only married 18yrs. (yea, I have just recently met my “other” sister.) he was engaged like as soon as he filed for divorce and he got married the day the divorce was final. That was 15 years ago, I believe. my mother has not remarried and doesn’t want to. She was mistreated throughout her entire marriage, and before (never physical, but major emotional abuse). when he left, she was upset, but after a while, she realized she was free. She started doing all the things she was never able to do before. She took painting classes, started going out with her girl friends, and went back to school. She is so happy. My dad, on the other hand, has no relationship with his children (all his own doing), hates his job, and is miserable in his new “of course the fpgrass is always greener” life. He calls my mom and cries about how much things suck. He has never apologized and never said he regrets his decisions, but after him complaining about everything in his life to my mom over the past 15 yes, he doesn’t need to say it. I love seeing my mom happy. Im sure ppl in your life love seeing you happy too. If they question how you got to this happy state, oh well. Not your problem. Your only job is to be happy and live your life. Congrats!!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I figured this would be a sad post from the title, but I’m glad you’re so happy!!

Post # 10
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Helper bee

Although I have never experienced this I want to let you know this brought tears to my eyes. My close friend is currently going through a divorce and I sent what you said onto her. She is at a low point right now and needs to see that life does turn around.  You happiness is raw and authentic. I wish you many more years of rolling over and seeing the love of your life. Best of luck. 

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Spinder:  i am so happy for you.  i’ve been there; only i left him.  like msmindle said, Living well/being happy is the best revenge

Post # 12
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5109 posts
Bee Keeper

@Spinder:  Sometimes, when you have such an emotional relationship like you had with your ex, it actually becomes easier to get over it quickly and move on.  As long as you’re happy, that’s all that matters.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

You came out of a miserable situation.  You found someone who makes you happy.  Why waste time when you know you’ve found the right person?  It’s nobody’s business but yours how soon you remarried.

Post # 15
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745 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

My ex and I were separated for about three years before the divorce was final. I met my fiance online about 7 months after we separated, we met in person about a year and a half after that, and I was living with him when the divorce was finalized. On what would have been my anniversary, I was in abit of a funk for a short time, but it didn’t last. I realised that, by getting married, then separated, I was single for when I met my fiance. It all worked out 🙂

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It makes sense to me.  I’m happy for you.  Everyone deserves to find happiness in their lives.  So much can change in just one year, eh?  Congrats to you!

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