(Closed) This week, because I'm CFBC, I…

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  • Post # 31
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    Buzzing bee

    groomsister35 :  We’ve earmarked this amazing private island resort in Belize for our 1 year anniversary trip. I’m so damn excited about it, no kids allowed, blissful quiet, personal butler and concierge service. It’s like my personal mini heaven. It’s not till Februrary 2020, but I have it bookmarked and just like looking at it.

    Post # 32
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    Sugar bee

    DaniGirl03 :  Great!

     

    groomsister35 :  I would assume so! Personally, I don’t have time to judge others or attempt to change them. Life is far too short for all of that. Everyone needs to live the life they want – and I reserve the right to pretend I’m experiencing everyone’s awesomeness through their stories!

     

    Post # 33
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    Busy Beekeeper

    DaniGirl03 :  PLEASE tell me the name of this resort?! This sounds amazing!! 

    My last week was unevently, this week probably equally uneventful lol. Though on Saturday my friend did come over to day drink and helped me wash my foster dog. He was fucking nasty smelling coming up from the shelter LOL.

    Post # 34
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    Buzzing bee

    http://aprivateisland.com/

    You have no idea how much I’m looking forward to it. We were originally planning it to be out honeymoon and then we picked vegas and we’re honeymooning there.

    Post # 35
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    Busy bee

    We booked our Valentine’s trip to another province, bought seasons’ tickets to our favourite sporting team and should be planning our Disney vacay soon. 

     

    I realize kids kids are allowed all of these places but we wouldn’t be able to afford it all if we had wee ones. 

    Post # 36
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016 - Montego Bay, Jamaica

    No judgment here! But this post totally reminded me of “The Finer Things Club” from the Office. I’m child free at the moment and definitely making sure to enjoy every single bit of it before we do have a baby. Planning a quick trip to Phoenix this weekend with my brother and Darling Husband to visit some friends! Friday night we went out around midnight to meet a friend at a bar, Darling Husband was my dd so I got drunk, we ended up at a hookah bar across town til about 4 am and didn’t end up in bed til after 5. I have a couple friends with babies who remind me A LOT to make sure Darling Husband and I enjoy all our free time while we can. So….I am! 😀 Planning a weekend in Laughlin in April and trying to think of something fun to do for my 30th bday in May. Assuming I’m not pregnant by then 🙂 

    Post # 37
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    Busy bee

    We woke up late, spent all of Saturday antiquing and boutique shopping, and last-minute ended up at dinner in a bar with friends. Had a gory movie marathon on Sunday and very vocal sex in the kitchen while we cooked dinner together. I had a very long bath afterwards while Darling Husband watched historical lectures. Heaven.

    Post # 38
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    Helper bee

    DaniGirl03 :  

    Oooh! That sounds amazing! My husband and I will be joining you. laughing

    Post # 39
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    Helper bee

    dodobee :  

    Do you have any favorite bath products? 

    I was just at Crabtree and Evelyn yesterday and I was appalled at the prices. I’m certainly not going to spend $40 on body wash. When I saw that price, I just laughed and went to Bath and Body Works instead. 

    Post # 40
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    groomsister35 :  But think of all the money you’re saving on diapers. 

     

    Am I doing it right?

    Post # 42
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2017

    DaniGirl03 :  Pretty sure your kid turning 18 doesn’t make you ‘child free by choice’ in the slightest but okay.

     

     

    This week I just did whatever I wanted, as I always do. 

    Post # 43
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    Helper bee

    I plan to have kids eventually, so right now I’m basking in the child free lifestyle and loving every second of it!

    I spent Saturday waking up naturally to a quiet house and had a peaceful morning. Saturday night was spent drinking wine while watching dazed and confused with my fiance until around 2 a.m. Then Sunday I stayed in bed until late in the day.

    To me, this is what weekends are for! Especially because I can do my errands any other time. 

    Post # 44
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    Helper bee

    Because I’m childfree, I posted more than one thread on this board pertaining to interactions between CFBC Bees and Bees with children. Many of the replies were intelligent and thoughtful. The usual suspects came in to rant and rave.

    In fact, I just started this particular thread and it has already been derailed by angry Bees with children. What’s with the constant mommyjacking? Nobody was talking to them. They claim to feel “excluded” by us. Um…there are plenty of boards and threads which are about parenting that they can participate in if they are so hurt. Some Bees who have decided to have kids are so insecure about their decision that our mere presence bothers them. It’s sad. 

    Post # 45
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    Buzzing bee

    abouttodoit17 :  I specifically asked if CFBC bees would mind if I joined these convos as long as I was polite and respectful and didn’t talk about my mini human or bingo the threads. And I don’t at all. Not a single person had a problem.

    No it won’t make me CFBC but it means I have a hell of a lot more in common with someone who is CFBC than someone who is TTC and popping out babies and their whole world revolves around their children. How with no kid at home will my life not be similar to a CFBC? I have similar goals and aspirations to the ladies here, enjoy similar things and very much enjoy talking to them, because they don’t have kids.

    I find myself identifying with CFBC women far more than other parents, I live my life much closer to that of a CFBC person than someone with small children. 

    If you have a problem with me joining in feel free to private message me and I’ll be happy to discuss it with you. But this isn’t the place.

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