@VikingPrincess: you said,
My thing is is why can’t they be ready before us?! Would make things so much easier!
Lol, because they have no idea that THEY NEED US.
They are like little boys… they want their cake & candy too (or was that “Candy” & “Peaches”)
Anyhow, most guys take a lot longer to grow up, because they could go on “dating” women who LET THEM MISBEHAVE without any accountability forever.
It is only when they meet a Quality Woman… that they begin to SEE that there is more to life than the Bar Scene with their buddies drinking beers and picking up chicks
It takes an AMAZING WOMAN to turn their heads and make them think that they might want to get serious with JUST ONE WOMAN
Where this all goes off the rails, is too often us gals don’t SEE what the Men SEE when they first meet us… that we are indeed AMAZING WOMEN
So if we are AMAZING WOMEN then we need to act like that. When you make a guy accountable for his actions so he can be YOUR GUY… and in turn YOU WILL BE HIS WOMAN (men get off on the ego of being with an AMAZING WOMAN and showing her off to his friends)*
All is right in the world.
When we stop realizing that we ARE AMAZING WOMEN (and if he won’t want you, some other guy surely will)
That is when we give away OUR POWER
Hope this helps,
* Men care about how they are perceived in the world… the Title they have – the Career they have – the Money they make – and the Woman / Family that they make
They want a Woman / Family they can be proud of. A Woman who KNOWS HERSELF – IS SELF CONFIDENT is the woman they want. They don’t want a doormat. They don’t respect a doormat. You convince a guy you are an AMAZING QUALITY WOMAN… and he ain’t gonna want to lose you.
And the big surprise Ladies… this isn’t “Auditioning for the Role of Wife”… this is being the woman you NOW ARE IN LIFE
You don’t have TO DO anything extra… you just have to get up off the floor and STAND UP for yourself.
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Anyhow for more inspiration… here are some GREAT Steve Harvey Quotes: