Post # 1
i have found in life when i plan for something it either falls way above or way below my expectations but never the way i imagined it.. This whole wedding planning has not been what i expected. From the dress picking to my uninvolved BMs and GMs (well i should say not involved as i wanted them to be). I fear that my wedding day will also not live up to my expectations 🙁 …………..29 days to go
also everything has been fine for months planning this wedding now with less than a month to go EVERYTHING is going wrong
Post # 3
The good news is that even if/when things go wrong on the wedding day, it doesn’t seem to matter. I found out later that there were several mishaps on my wedding day that I didn’t even know about. So my advice? Who ever is in charge (whether that is a coordinator or just your family or Maid/Matron of Honor or whatever) tell them to keep the little stuff quiet if it goes wrong. There’s really nothing you can do about it at that point anyway, and adding extra stress is POINTLESS. It’s so much better that way. 🙂 It’s so easy to just enjoy the fact that you are getting married or are newly married.
Also? You are not alone in those feelings. A LOT of us (myself included) felt the same way at times. I was not a huge fan of planning my wedding and in hindsight would have enjoyed a small beach wedding or elopement. But hey. I’m still a Mrs and had a lovely wedding!
Post # 4
@AmeliaBedelia: thank you for your kind words