Post # 1
I know that I don’t post a whole lot but I really didn’t know what else to do right now….I am so mad that I could chew bricks. Me and my husband got into a really big argument and i decided that I honestly don’t want to renew our vows anymore. It too much stuff going on and I am just at a breaking point and simply fed up with my marriage right now. A lot things are just not right, and I don’t know if the will ever be. So I will be taking the dress back tomorrow along with all the other stuff that I just recently purchased. I am sad because I have been working really hard on this and now its not going to happen. But I am talking it all with a grain of salt. I just really need prayers right now that things will work out somehow.
I learned so much from all of the fellow bees and i even started a wedding planning blog. Which totally sucks now becausei just posted new stuff up. Oh well I guess thats all i can think of to say.. So good bye bees. Happy planning to you all.
Post # 3
I am sorry for what you are going through. I really hope you and your husband will be able to work through things.
Take care, and know that you are always welcome here 🙂
Post # 4
So sorry you are going through this! The bee offers more than just wedding talk, so why not stay and post on the emotional boards, etc?
I have found so much support here and it has really helped…
Post # 5
thanks ladies the bee really has been a saving grace for me. maybe i will stick around.
Post # 6
I’m so sorry! I hope that things work out.. Prayers for you and your husband!!
Post # 7
So sorry! I hope you will be back soon…
Post # 8
Aww thanks you guys for all of your prayers that has really brightened up my day today, and they must be working because things are a little better today. Still not greatest but marriage is a work in progress, and I decided that I am still going to do our vow renewal next year. For one I have spent too much money even though majority of the stuff is stil refundable. I already bought my dress and I really want to wear it. So I am going to continue pray that we can get through this rough spot. Thanks again to all of you wonderful bees.
Post # 9
Good luck and i’m sending you good vibes. 🙂 Hope you get to wear your dress soon.
Post # 10
🙁 I’m so sorrry you are going through this right now. I hope things work out for the best for you.
Post # 11
I hope everything works out for you! Please reconsider your decision to leave. There are all kinds of things on here besides “wedding planning”.
Post # 12
I’m sorry that things seem so tough for you right now, but definitely stick around! I’ve found that the bees really help me with a lot of the issues I have with my mom even though I’ve been married already for a while! It’s a great site for support on anything!
Post # 13
I echo everything the other bee’s have said about this being a community of support. I think it is absolutely awesome to have such great women all in one place & willing to give caring, yet subjective, advice on virtually anything. I hope you safely make it through this rough patch and I will keep you in my prayers indefinitely! I would also recommend an absolutely amazingg book I’ve been reading lately called “Getting the love you want” (I’m reading the 20th anniversary edition which has apparently undergone some changes from the original) written by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
Best of luck & warm wishes!
Post # 14
Don’t make big (or small, really) decisions when you’re angry. Stick around!