(Closed) Test post

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
664 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Just straight up ask him and tell him what you just told us.

Do you know any of the friends?

Post # 4
Member
1231 posts
Bumble bee

@bells219:  that’s a little strange. I would tell him that it came up on your suggested friends and ask him about it.

Post # 5
Member
14494 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Simply be honest and ask him about it in a non confrontational way.  If there is no reason to still have it then he can delete it right?

Is he using it for games?  Did you by any chance check the game usage on the account?

Post # 7
Member
10714 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

@tksjewelry:  I thought that too…

I play a few games on facebook and have accounts for my magazine and for my cat HAHAHA… I add people there to help with the games so I don’t have to add them to my actual account where I just rather have friends.

Post # 8
Member
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’d just ask him what he’s using it for.  My Fiance actually has one too – it’s kind of complicated to explain the reason why, but he told me about it and I know the name and what he uses it for, so it doesn’t bother me.

Post # 9
Member
5183 posts
Bee Keeper

That sounds super sketch. The stalker-ish behavior post break-up aside (which is a huge red flag in the first place), the fact that he has been on this fake profile and not to delete it is very strange. I say trust your instincts and bring it up.. I really don’t think there will be any good reason/answer though. 

Post # 10
Member
8588 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

That’s a little weird IMO. I wouldn’t flip out about it, but maybe casually mention that it popped up as a recommended friend and see what he says about it.

Post # 11
Member
2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Don’t flip out about it in any case. But yeah, it is potentially weird that he has current activity on an account that was originally created for overtly weird, stalky, inappropriate reasons. Some clarification might be in order, but you don’t have to confront him in a dramatic fashion to get that, do you? Or does the guy who needs to “keep tabs on you” tend to blow these things out of proportion?

Post # 12
Member
3624 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’d flip out. That doesn’t sound good. Let us know how it goes. Btw, why won’t this be up long?

Post # 13
Member
1571 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wait… Why doesn’t the “looking for an affair” lady concern you?

Post # 14
Member
3120 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@bells219:  “No- 3 sports-related things and some random chick who advertises that she’s “looking for an affair.”  I’m not worried about that specifically, just the activity at all.”


Why doesn’t this bother you?  Why is he friends with this person in the first place?  You know you can deny friend requests…

I would just be honest with him.  Why is this page even still active? 

Post # 14
Member
3624 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wait – you’re not worried that 25% of his friends that he willfully added want to have an affair? Why do you not care that he added her?

The topic ‘Test post’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors