(Closed) Thought he'd propose tomorrow, but…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Oh no!! maybe he is just trying to throw you off so you dont expect it??

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Imean:  Personally I feel that it is a little dishonest and a total invasion of privacy that you went through your boyfriends emails. Relationships are based on trust and what you did is a violation of trust. He will ask you when HE feels ready. Pushing him will only make him reevaluate the relationship.

I would talk to him about it. If not you’re eventually going snap because you are getting impatient and wanting it to happen. That is going to ruin the moment. Have you thought maybe was planning something big for the proposal? From the sound of it, it seems that he making sure you two are together for sure that day.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Eek! I’m in sort of the same boat! Not to get your hopes up but it does sound like he’s trying to make sure that everything goes according to plan tomorrow and maybe that plan involves a proposal? ๐Ÿ˜‰ If it doesn’t happen, just make yourself look all super sexy for this party and go with every intention of having an awesome time ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

My Fiance was totally calm even the day he proposed. Like as in he had everything set up in our basement (candles lit, ring conveniently hidden) and he calmly sat and ate pizza and watched 2 episodes of Mad Men like he didn’t have a care in the world. Then he proposed. He may still be planning something for tomorrow and it’s just not obvious.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Just thinking out loud… if the party is in the evening (assuming 7pm or later), that means he’s got almost 12 hours before that to propose, or he could propose at the party.  Plenty of opportunity and no reason for you to get disappointed already.  And yes, you shouldn’t have been snooping anyways, so if it doesn’t happen, it’s your own fault that you’re disappoint since you shouldn’t know about the proposal in the first place.

Good luck and enjoy the party!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Any news???

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

My fiance fake proposed to me the night before, so we could laugh about the “proposal.” He was totally chill and calm. He actually didn’t start acting weird until like 5 minutes before he did it. 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Aw. I kind of wish you didn’t see the email because then it would of been a suprise. Maybe he knows you saw the email? Or maybe he did that to throw you off? Either way it’s coming so try to relax. And if your a b*tch to him it may make him push it farther away.

 Good luck let us know!!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@Imean:  …. and I got nothing for you. I wish I had some words of wisdom for you but I’d just be upset and hurt by it…. so whatever you do, just try not to be too nasty. Though I’ve seen a lot of engagement posts starting with, “I was in such a bad mood….” 

๐Ÿ™‚ 

He loves you even if your not always the nicest person. Just remember that.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Yay! Yay! Yay!!! Been stalking the bee for this update! So happy for you ๐Ÿ™‚ Congratulations! Gorgeous ring! Yippeeee!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Ugh… I don’t think it’s going to happen… He just texted me to say we’re going to his mom for lunch… And that normally turns into a whole day affair… Oh well.

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