(Closed) Thought it could be tonight…

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m sorry hun… I think he’s genuine and still loves you as much as you think he does… sometimes guys are just jackasses :S

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m very sorry you’re going through this tonight.  (((hug)))

Post # 5
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Busy bee

Oh sweetie! I am so, so sorry.

Post # 6
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810 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

*HUGS*

Guys are stupid.  That’s why they need us.  You should do Mr. Bee’s plan though, just so he can see the happy you that he fell in love with. I hope things work out ok 🙂

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Awww that sucks I’m sorry.  Guys don’t think sometimes before they speak.  I don’t blame you for being bummed that it wasn’t a proposal and I would be upset about his comment too.  I hope he makes it up to you.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

Oh wow. I can’t believe he said that! 

I think he was just lashing out at you a bit. Not because he was hurt, but maybe to cover his butt or something? Ease his guilt.

Anyway, I really hope it happens soon for you and I hope your guy realized that he’s a dolt.

Post # 11
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Busy bee

omg i’m sorry that was so mean of him. i hate when guys say stupid things without thinking.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

he’s just being ridiculously inconsiderate.  knowing you are waiting for a proposal and dangling a “surprise” over your head on an anniversary? ugh, I’d be annoyed.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I have kind of heard that comment before ” you still gonna be like this after we are engaged?” he means when we get into the conversation and he just doesnt get it, I get frusterated. I am not bitchy all the time just when he thinks it should be no big deal to women in waiting… that is complete BS for sure…

Post # 14
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363 posts
Helper bee

((((hugs))))

Post # 16
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1669 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I’m sorry that happened. I’ve done it several time where I think that something big is going to happen and my SO is just being himself like its any other day.  It just ends up to several disappointments at one time.  Your SO probably was kinda joking with you but little did he know how that waiting brain works.  HUGS for you.  I’m sure we all know how you feel.  Hope your SO makes it up to you.

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