(Closed) Thoughtless family

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

YOur family is absolutely crossing a line trying to plan YOUR wedding without YOU! Stick to your guns girl!!

Post # 4
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1719 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m so sorry!  I think the best thing is to try to take your wedding back.  I don’t know if it’s any consolation to know that many brides go through family drama as well? //  My family wasn’t supportive either.  And, at times, I wanted to scrap all the plans and elope.  *hugs*

Post # 6
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1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@jenrengee:  Please don’t let their snide comments emotionally blackmail to do what they want to do.

This is YOUR WEDDING, you’rs and your future husbands. Do NOT include them in your planning whatsoever because they have no boundaries. Ignore them and do what you want to do. You do not have to answer phone calls and when you have your vendors set make sure you have a password set so no one can change your plans!!

Post # 7
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771 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@jenrengee:  You have to set some boundaries here.  If you upset them, so be it.  Go along with planning your day, your way.  If someone makes a special trip to help with planning, tough shit when they don’t get to help.  Fortunately I think it’s safe to say you don’t have to worry about them actually implementing any of their plans. 

Post # 8
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58 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

They should’ve definetly asked you first. Since it was your mom who initially planned it, I don’t think she did it on purpose. I’m sure she is very excited to be planning a wedding with you, and she got carried away. Your aunts are her sisters, and probably just like her, wanting to be in the mix and helping in any way that they can. With that said, you aunt needs to calm down! Who the heck made her the bride??

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