- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2011
So, while my Bridesmaid drama hasn’t quite worked itself out yet (I find out one hour from now whether one of my BM’s is resigning — yup, over lunch in the middle of my Friday, good times), I find myself having stumbled across a piece of wisdom I thought I would share with the Hive – see if anyone agrees/has had similar experiences:
Wisdom: Asking a girlfriend to be a bridesmaid too early in the relationship is like moving in with a guy too early in the relationship — you learn all sorts of personal things about each other that your relationship may not yet be strong enough to withstand. And you may end up losing it entirely as a result.
Anyway, the story is long and convoluted and probably not worth sharing. But I thought that the advice was good for anyone who might be evaluating whether a girl is a good enough friend to be a bridesmaid. I am sure it can be done successfully, but … tread carefully.