Thoughts on female coworker/husband relationship?

posted 2 weeks ago in Married Life
Post # 46
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2019

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@lulubelle2017:  Yes this so much this! Girl he is gas lighting you so hard to make you feel like the crazy one for having totally normal feelings that any women would have in your situation. That’s actually considered abusive behavior.

Post # 47
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Helper bee

I just want to validate your feelings OP. You’re not crazy or overreacting at all.

 

Post # 49
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Bumble bee

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@svargas:  his reactions just dig this hole deeper. 

You should not have to plead with him to have him agree that it is wrong. 

He should be apologetic and offer to make amends and keep your trust. 

He’s selfish, immature. The function of his behaviour is this female attention is feeding his ego

 He should be seeking that attention from you, only you. 

It’s gross. Unless he makes huge strides in character through therapy I would be feeling very let down and disinterested in continuing. 

Don’t feel.powerless.  many women before you and many right now have felt stuck, but took the steps. Myself included. It’s a challenge but it’s so worth it to be out of a shit situation and get on with your life. 

Post # 51
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Helper bee

You do not need counseling for his bad behavior. You aren’t overreacting. Your husband should respect your feelings. 

Post # 52
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2020

I wouldn’t like his behavior at all – your reaction is valid.

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