Post # 61
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Helper bee
- apresallday
- 3 years ago
- Wedding: November 2018
Thank you
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Memberelderbee! We definitely are!
Post # 62
Member733 posts
Busy bee
- keepingitreal8675309
- 3 years ago
I think the dress is beautiful, and now you’ve got me re-thinking my anniversary dress to have it maybe be more like the neckline on yours- it’s THAT good! Congratulations!
As for your friend, I have a feeling she’s just handling some feelings of her own. I was in her position a long time ago, of having a canceled wedding and right or wrong,I coudln’t be happy for others as their days came to get married. Particularly when the date came close that I was supposed to get married. It’s not mature or right, but I couldn’t shake the feelings. I am sorry she behaved this way, I doubt if it was anything personal.
The dress is great, you look Da*n good!
Post # 63
Member211 posts
Helper bee
- apresallday
- 3 years ago
- Wedding: November 2018
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It is tricky knowing how to be a good friend. I’m trying to be sensitive, but at the same time they were together 4 years and broke up over a year ago, she’s still in her mid 20s — she might be completely over it! And I don’t want to seem patronising assuming that she’s struggling because of her breakup when it could easily be that she just wasn’t in to it on the day or is preoccupied with other life things.
It’s a bit frustrating as well because she was originally upset that Fiance and I had planned so much so quickly and without her, but when I try to get her involved in wedding planning (dress shopping! cake tasting!) she is really negative and gives me vibes like she doesn’t want to be there. Just can’t keep some people happy!