(Closed) Three Weeks after wedding husband kissed another woman

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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2488 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am soooooooooooooooo very sorry that this happend to you!

i have no advice as neither me or hubby drinks so I have no feelings twards that but

1st being in counciling is great!

does he feel remorse?

DO you love him enough to get through it again and trust him to learn from his over drinking mistake?

Post # 4
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38 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2011

2 months of counselling is a long enough time to know if you can forgive him or not. It isn’t healthy for either of you to be holding onto this anger, and not even be able to kiss him or tell him you love him. You need to let go. And that means let go of the relationship, or let go of your anger, and truly forgive your husband of his infidelity.

Post # 6
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2488 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@unsure_lost:  

This will get better.

Your marriage will mend and he will be the man and husband you want and deserve!- better then the man he was before!

I know. =]

Post # 7
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901 posts
Busy bee

Gosh, I’m so sorry! It sounds like progress that he’s facing his drinking. I’d be very hurt and find it hard to forgive and move on, too.

What does the counselor say?

Post # 8
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2488 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@unsure_lost:  

DO what it takes to forgive him.

Forget abotu the wedding for abit

do what it takes to forgive him

and then start the marriage over.

have a small vow exchange between the two of you again a nice night and look at the pictures and video if you have one!

Post # 10
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658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@unsure_lost:  Wow, how devastating. I am soooo sorry that this hapened and so close after your wedding. Good thing is that you are in counseling and working towards a solution, problem is though, that no matter what, it will probably always hurt deep down inside. I am so sorry and you are in my thoughts

 

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Killingmesoftly:  forgive him.

forgiveness is … mind blowing…

i’m going to PVM you my story.

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@unsure_lost:  

I understand that it isn’t that easy. But it sounds like your husband also has his set of troubles, with alcoholism, and mistakes. I just don’t think it is healthy to hold onto the anger, when clearly your husband is making progressive strides in getting better, in changing if you will. I hope it all works out for you.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@unsure_lost:  

you having a counciler is awesome.

don’t forget about it forever but don’t worry to much about it beacuse one day you’ll be able to look at it and love it!

Seriously! I know this will get better for you!

is Darling Husband willing to give up drinking all together?

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@unsure_lost:  

 

well maybe you should share a photo with us??? if you want or feel it could help

also..

is he getting into AA?

as a child who grew up in NA ( both my parents are recovering drug addicts and both have over 20 years clean! YAY to them) I strongly believe in it and its powers!

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