Threesomes! Have you ever tried one?

posted 3 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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Newbee

I have. I wasn’t a very good experience for me, because I had a very jealous partner who walked out because he felt that I was paying too much attention to the other woman. 

However, I have friends who have them regularly, and enjoy them. It all depends on the people involved. 

As for finding a partner:

I know it’s easier said than done (depending on where you live), but try to surround youself with sexually open people. You’ll get invites, or you’ll at least end up in conversations where extending an invitation feels natural. 

Post # 3
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Helper bee

No, three is a crowd as far as I’m concerned.

Post # 4
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Helper bee

Hope you are prepared for the risks?

I’m guessing it’s mff because I’ve rarely heard of people having mmf?

Anyway, there was a thread here recently in which a long term relationship broke down following a threesome….

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

she646 :  let me guess, he wants another woman, not a man right?  Insist you want the first three some to include another *man*. I predict your husband will suddenly lose interest in having a threesome…..

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

I am just curious. .. do the three some always include another woman? Or can they include another man? why or why not? 

Personally  I only have sexual attraction for someone I love, and I am super monogomous. My fh too. 

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2020 - City, State

Please consider the other partner as a person with their own wants and needs. Do some research on unicorn hunting. It’s generally considered very poor manners, to say the least.

All my group experiences have happened organically, with friends or metamours (I’m polyamorous). I’m a big fan! Haha.

I also highly recommend a mmf 3some, although not for the reasons others are suggesting, to prove some sort of point, but just because it’s awesome. 😉 

Post # 8
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Helper bee

mrstodd2bee :  Yeah. That’s always so predictable and then the girlfriend/wife gets defensive that she is secure and trusts her boyfriend/husband to not do anything behind her back. 

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper

Based on the recent thread where the Fiance ended up leaving the relationship for the other woman in the threesome I’d think long and hard about this. 

Post # 14
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Blushing bee

Being really honest here: Yes I have! I love threesomes because to me it is fun to do something different and do a little show with another girl. I have had threesomes while in serious relationships and have been the girl in a couples’ threesome.

The most important thing: It will only work if ALL parties wholeheartedly want to do it. Watch for any apprehensiveness from any person involved at any point in time. 

I’ve never had a guy leave for the threesome chick – frankly/honestly I’m not concerned about it. I always was the one who got to ‘pick’ or decide which girl we would ask. In each threesome situation, the girl being brought in to the relationship should respect that relationship. She is secondary and it kind of naturally follows that power dynamic, at least in my experience. 

Post # 15
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Helper bee

What’s with all the threesome threads lately?? I’m over it already.

They’re a bad idea. If you’re bored, break up. Boom. Done. The end.

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