(Closed) Thrilled or skeptical?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
130 posts
Blushing bee

Me and fi were very similar, minus the lame ex. I was really hesitant at first bc I didn’t want to go too fast and admittedly struggle with trust issues but 2 years later we’re now planning our wedding. Just go with it if it’s good.

Post # 3
213 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Don’t over analyize things. Go with it and enjoy your time together, if he says he is on the same page as you are let it be. There will come a time for the important talks and you will know when to bring it up. 4 months in, 4 years in…only you two know what is best for each other. 

Post # 4
9230 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Don’t let the negativity of your last relationship spill into the new one.  I wonder if your constant need to verify every good thing your bf says to you or disount it entirely has to do with unfinished business with your ex.  

Your anxiety is making it impossible for you to stay in the moment & just be with your bf.

Post # 5
361 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I think its naturaly to start thinking that way now but its only a few months in so anything could happen. I wouldn’t look into it too much. He’s probably just vocalizing his thought process for the future but may not be anywhere near ready to actually take that step. Just enjoy your time together and maybe initiate another conversation a few more months down the road once you both have a more realistic outlook on your relationship.

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