Post # 1
I know it’s in the house. It’s hidden somewhere in the house. And the thought of being somewhere I don’t know about is bugging me. It’s got me in such a sweat, that when SO left for work I scoured the WHOLE house – that’s right bees – every draw, every sock, every crook and cranny! To my displeasure, I couldn’t find it. I just wanted a “peek”. Ok, well, maybe even to try on my sparkle-sparkle (yes, I have named my ring…) – but I was going to put it back – I SWEAR!
hahahah well, at the moment I’m settling for Tim Tams dipped in coffee to calm me down…for NOW. 🙂
tell me waiting bees – how are you coping with the knowledge of a hidden treasure in your home?
Post # 3
@miss hellas: How EXCITING!!!!! Hopefully he doesn’t make you wait too long for a proposal.
No matter what, don’t peek. Let him have his moment when he finally does propose. You will be so surprised, and it will make him feel great and the moment that much more special!!!
Post # 4
@ChicChick: I know! I have a funny feeling he’s waiting for our anniversary (13 October) haha we’ll see! 🙂 ooh, I know – you’re soo right! I should stop…but good gracious it is tempting!!! lol
Post # 5
I can only imagine how tempting that must be!!! But enjoy the surprise, it’ll be worth it!! 🙂
Post # 6
That’s very exciting! But I think I would suggest to stop peeking and TRY to pretend that you had no idea and stop stop looking for it. I had no idea when he proposed (I had no idea he had the ring) and I think it was REALLY surprising.. P.S. just a hint, when I finally asked him how long he had had the ring and where he hid it, he said at work! Yes, at his office. So maybe yours is not at all home
Post # 7
LOL I feel ya. SO and I don’t live together, but I know he has it. Some days it is shear torture, most days I handle it pretty well. Good luck to you though! It’s very exciting!
Post # 8
@miss hellas: Aww your anniversary is the day before mine! I’m hoping for an anniversary proposal as well! My Fingers are crossed for you! 🙂
Post # 9
@miss hellas: DITTO! To your post title. I agree with other bees to stop peeking. I know it’s hard but TRY. My SO has had the ring for 5 weeks (today) and I’m dying because it seems like he’s dragging his feet still to propose. He says little things like he’s trying to plan or pay for something (regarding the proposal–although he won’t use the ‘p’ word). And I don’t want to take that away from him. So I’m TRYING to be patient but it’s HARD! I just don’t understand why the proposal causes for a big HOOP-LA when I don’t really want that but I think he thinks that I do. But just because I don’t want it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t for himself to be proud of his proposal. Uggghhh I just hate it!
Really no words for you but just know that I’m right there with you and it’s killing me as well. Fingers crossed that our SO’s propose soon! Good Luck!!!
Post # 10
Stop looking and let him have his moment. You already know he has it and you probably even gave him some pretty strong hints about what styles you like. Do you know what I would give to know that my SO even bought a ring??? The worst part is over. Now just wait and let this ONE thing be a surprise.
Post # 11
Are you sure it is in the house? Because if I was hiding something and I knew my SO would most likely find it I would keep it at someone else’s house…
You know he has it. You know you will be engaged, then married some day. Do not spoil it by searching for your ring! You will have a whole lifetime to wear it and look at it!
Update us when he surprises you with it 😉 x
Post # 12
@waitingbee12: OOOH! let me know how it goes!!! 🙂
@PrettySedity: I’m with you girl! got my fingers crossed for you too! update me PLEASE! 🙂
@KJM2013: thanks for the support – and you are TOTALLY right. if it wern’t for bees like you, i’d porbably drive myself insane! you bring me back to reality! lol 🙂
@spaneshal: i know he wouldnt leave it with friends because he is paranoid lol – but i have a feeling he’s maybe given it to his mumma bear for safe-keeping (we live with SO’s parents), and she has a coded lock box. I am SOOO not even going to try that one!!! hahha I will update you all for sure! 🙂
sooo excited bees…thank you for calming me down!!! cross your fingers for me 🙂
Post # 13
I would be doing the same thing!!! I know my SO does not have the ring yet…we just talked about rings tonight. Hopefully he asks you SOON!!!
Post # 14
I know mine wont ever be in the house SO doesnt keep any of my gifts here he always keeps them locked in his desk at work. I do know when he will be buying it (well not the exact day but around what day it will be) so I am sure I will start going crazy looking for box shapes in his pockets when he comes home lol
Post # 15
@miss sparkly cat: cheeky, cheeky! I know exactly what you mean!!! I was like that too – and when I found out he had already bought it I was in such shock because I never noticed him sneaking it home? wishing you all the best!!! 🙂
@misskittykakes: crossing my fingers for us all! this is exciting stuff ladies 🙂