(Closed) tickle/cuddle/pillow talk/belly laugh

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Is a tickle fight/cuddle fest/pillow talk session/hour-long belly laugh...

    as good as sex

    better than sex

    nowhere near as good as sex

    meh, not my/our thing

  • Post # 3
    6391 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    We haven’t actually had sex yet, but we have tickle fights all the time. I definitely know what you mean about it being a great way to bond :).

    Post # 4
    1212 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Fiance and I have amazing cuddles, we spend about an hour before going to sleep cuddling, tickling, back scratches, talking, daydreaming outloud, laughing till we cry,and bonding. I’d say emotionally its better than sex. We don’t have sex very often, maybe 2-3 times a month, But when we do it is amazing, the other night it was 3 hours of raw sexual magnetism. It sounds cliche, but we become so connected during sex that its like we are one person. And that is the best feeling in the world.

    Post # 5
    4136 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    yes! we had this last night too…definitely as good as (and sometimes better than) sex!

    Post # 6
    7691 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Didnt vote because I think there should be an option for “different than sex” – to me its not really comparable. Sex feels great physically and brings us closer in a different way than talking/daydreaming/cuddling/laughing. I love doing those things and feel really close to DH when we do but to me comparing that to sex is like comparing apples to oranges!

    Post # 7
    4693 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I really, really hate being tickled, so for us tickle fights are in no way comparable to sex.  Tickle fights are torture. 🙂

    I do think that cuddling, day dreaming, and laughing together are wonderful, and definitely bring us closer.

    Post # 8
    13094 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

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    @PitBulLover: I’m with you – I really don’t feel like you can compare the too.

    I HATE being tickled but love cuddleing/pillow talk/etc yet I don’t feel like you can even make a comparison between those things and sex.

    Post # 9
    923 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Ahhh….I love the tickling/cuddling/laughing!  If you ask me, what’s even better than doing it alone is combining it with the sexy time.  Then you have the best of both worlds.  Fiance has told me he thinks it’s the sexiest thing ever when I laugh when we’re messing around (not at him obviously).  He loves trying to tickle me when I’m on top of him – he’s silly and I love it.

    Post # 10
    2828 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Tickling makes me cry.

    A little bit is okay/fun, but if it goes too far I go into panic mode/feel trapped and it is not a good day.

    Cuddling/pillow talk/laughing together is a completely different/separate from tickling in my world.

    We do however spar/play fight (no one ever gets hurt and it’s more like wreslting/a mercy fight than anything), and that is usually fun, but again, very different experience than sexual intimacy.

    Post # 11
    1890 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

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    @PitBulLover: Totally agree.  They are incomparable.

    But I totally understand what you mean about it being a great way to bond and feel connected. It’s so casual and sweet 🙂

    Post # 12
    4354 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Certainly as good at least!

    Post # 13
    7768 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I love snuggling/ relaxing in bed together and laughing and talking.  So great.

    Post # 14
    4544 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I agree it’s at least as good as sex, depending on your mood it can be better! I love to cuddle and be silly with DH.

    Post # 15
    216 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    As good, if not better. Such a treat.

    Post # 16
    510 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    hmm…I put ‘better than’ cuz our goofing off like that usually turns into sex, so it’s an added bonus 🙂

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