Post # 1
I really want to get Tiffany pendants for my Maid/Matron of Honor and BMs as their gift, however my sister being one of my Bridesmaid or Best Man is allergic to anything that is not gold. This really puts me in a bind, because I like everyone to have the same gift as not playing any favorites. I have thought about giving each one an engraved keychain for uniformity, but I really prefer giving a pendant. I saw on Tiffany’s website that they have gift cards as well. Would it be weird to get everyone a pendant and then giving her a gift card that she can choose her own gift? Or just giving everyone a gift card from Tiffany. It’s not as personal as I would like, but not sure of any other way. I also was going to put together a goody basket for them each.
anywho.. any ideas would be great.
Post # 3
if anyone should ahve a "special’ gift, wouldnt it be your own sister?? i’m sure there wont be any hurt feelings from the other BMs??
that aside, if you’re set on having matchy matchy gifts for your BMs then GC from T&Co would work… i’m sure they’ll all be super happy with just being part of your day!
how about giving each a crystal vase instead or any of the gorgeous non-jewelry items they have??
Post # 4
If I got anything from T&co I’d be happy. Being she’s your sister I’d totally understand if she got a different present. Actually being a part of anybody’s wedding should be an honor. getting presents or not.
Post # 5
well to elaborate even more.. my 3 BMs are my sisters and Maid/Matron of Honor is my good friend from college. i want to get everyone a tiffany pendant and most of the reasonable priced ones are in silver, but then my one sister couldn’t get one cause of her allergic reaction to anything other than gold. hmm.. i may check out some of T&Co’s nonjewelry section… still thinking..
Post # 6
I am also allergic, but have a couple of Tiffany necklaces (the heart, and the XOX with the diamond). I just can’t wear them every day, and sometimes can’t wear them all day long. How allergic is your sister? I know that for me, I absolutely can’t wear earrings or a ring that is not gold, but do okay with a necklace or bracelet for a short period of time. You could also get her the pendant in sterling, and a white gold chain to wear with it. I don’t know if Tiffany has white gold chains, but you could ask… or get the chain somewhere else (Macy’s, for instance has a nice selection).