(Closed) Time for another Big Talk

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I just wanted to say good luck and I hope it all goes as you wish! Sending good vibes your way.

 

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

Breakfast sounds like a great idea. Hope everything goes well. I don’t know what your tactic is, but I always right a list of things I want to knock out. I don’t bring it with me. But writing it helps me remember what I want to cover. Good luck!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

Good luck!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee

Good luck!

Post # 7
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Busy bee

Good luck. Even if the conversation doesn’t go the way you want it to it can be an eye opening experience.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I hope everything is going well. I’ve got my fingers crossed for you!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

good luck!

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Awww… well at least you know where his head is.. and he’s not stringing you along.  I’m glad that he’s being honest with you.   It allows you to be honest with yourself and decide how long you’re willing to wait for him to be on the same page as you are.

Good luck, doll.. hopefully it won’t be long!

Post # 13
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Sugar bee

Oh I am so sorry honey- did you ask him though what exactly does he need to be ready? I am sorry, I just don’t understand the whole not ready part of it and I assume you are done with schooling, have jobs and live together…. what exactly more does he need? Why must he receive everything you give to him for him to not be ready in return?

I am sorry, I am just so frustrated for you. I really hope he readies himself soon.

Post # 14
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Helper bee

I’m so sorry to hear about the talk – it does sound difficult.  He still is non-commital and “not ready” but as armcychica06 said “why is he not ready?”  

This is a difficult situation.  You hang in there and keep us posted.

I feel like I’m in a similar situation with a man who is “not ready” but says “yes” to the question ‘do you want to get married to me.” 

It’s confusing and frustrating to say the least.

Hugs and positive vibes!

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