(Closed) Time goes fast, wedding date set up, but no ring yet!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Blushing bee

I would therefore not really think you’re engaged. If there’s no ring, there’s really nothing but talk. I had a classmate a few years ago who had a “date” set with her then boyfriend but I ran into her last week and no wedding ever happened, she’s actually with another guy! They did all of this planning but he didn’t get her a ring. I’m not saying he’s leading you on or saying it to shut you up or anything but I’d have a ring before I made any real plans or decisions if I was you. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I think you can be engaged without a ring as long as yOu’re comfortable with it :). 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

You’re getting married this month? I think you have bigger fish to fry than getting an e-ring!

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

When you say you’re getting married this month, do you mean vendors are already booked, invites out?  Do you mean you and your SO have agreed to go to the courthouse on X day?  Or do you mean something a lot less concrete, like having talked about it and at some point, picked a date that is fast approaching?

Because if a legal/religious marriage ceremony is truely on your horizon, I wouldn’t hold my breath for a ring or proposal.  You’ve agreed to get married, set plans in motion to do that and at this point you should assume that was proposal enough for him.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

as you are planning on getting married this month and you have dates/courthouse booked i really dont see why you are stressing about a “proposal” because i think its pretty much a done deal

in the meantime, you are an adult – straight out ask the person you are going to marry in “hey, are you going to give me a ring and when am im going to get it?”

you should be comfortable enough to talk to the person you are going to marry, if you cant do that at least then do some work on your communication and confidence to raise these subjects

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