(Closed) Time to do it again… already?!?!?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I feel like this a lot.  If I realize it’s been almost a week, I always put the moves on.  I feel bad letting it go over a week!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Hello me on this past Saturday morning.

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

hahaha this is my life.

and the shitty thing is my fiance has to travel a lot during the week.

last night was one of those nights where i thought, “maaan we should have sex before he goes… but i’m just so tired…” (and it didn’t happen, sorry honey)

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

totally.  there was a poll a little while back on here where I remember seeing a TON of bees saying that they did it on average 3-5 times a week, and a fair number said EVERY DAY!!

My mind was blown, haha.  Aren’t they TIRED!!?

I feel bad if I let it go a week as well, but more than twice a week would definitely be atypical for us.  I thought this might be low but after talking with many couple friends of mine who have been in relationships 5+ years, it seems pretty average to do it 1-2 a week, and sometimes more when there may be a particular romantic high in the relationship!

 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@September29:  haha, this is why I thought it on Saturday – I was going out of town for a girls night away and it had been since last weekend. I even initiated which never happens.

 

Actually that’s a fib, I tend to initiate when I know he is tired. I am an awful person 🙂

 

Not that I don’t love sex, it just works out this way with jobs, travel, house renos etc.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@carnivaltheme:  yesyesyes – that poll made me feel like an old maid lol!!

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Its funny you post this because I was just going to post how sometimes my Darling Husband and I will talk about how much we want to have sex that night and tease and send naughty text messages during work hours. Then, we get home, make dinner, clean up and before you know it we are asleep. lol 

We might not be tired during the day but boy at the end of the day we forgot we were in the mood. lol 

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Fiance and I have had a million discussions about frequency. He has a super high drive, and it’s pretty much impossible to keep up. The result is that most of the time, I’m just not into it, but I do it for him. He doesn’t like that, but he’s not willing to cut down on quantity in favor of quality. I WISH my guy would let me get away with 3-5 a week. That would be amazing.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@Mrs.Jansen:  HAHA! OMG, that is me almost every day. However, Fiance rarely gets too tired. He’s like, “Umm… but you said….”

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper

My Fiance and I both have a high drive so we get it on pretty much every day.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

LOL….yes.  Maybe we’re just old.  Plus, when you’re TTC it’s even worse.  Then the standard advice is to DTD every other night, minimum.  I’m exhausted and we’re not even pregnant yet. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Ugh, lately yes, and I’ve been feeling so bad about it too! I’m just exhausted with work and studying (CPA exams) that I pass out at like 10’clock every night. Some days I even tell myself “Ok, tonight we WILL have sex” and then I’m dead to world at 9:30 and wake the next morning like DAMMIT.

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@Tangled:  Yeah I know what you mean, I have been woken up a few times with a nice surprise. lol 

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