Time to make a decision (my long and long-time-coming post)

posted 1 year ago in Waiting
  • poll: What would you do in my place?
    Sign new lease together and move together in May/June; wait for engagement in summer (after June 19) : (2 votes)
    1 %
    Sign lease myself and move into new place in May; offer to have boyfriend move in if/when engaged : (69 votes)
    28 %
    End relationship and move into new apartment in May : (172 votes)
    71 %
  • Post # 91
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    Blushing bee

    girl…no

    Post # 92
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    54 posts
    Worker bee

    girlfriendphd :  I saw on the waiting list that you had gotten engaged and remembered your screenname for a reason (I am also getting a PhD) but more specifically because of this original post.

    Firstly, congratulations! I am glad to hear you are happy with your decision. There have been things early in my relationship with my SO that drove me away but I came back and am happier than ever so I understand where you are coming from.

    But… what ever went down with that coworker that confessed her feelings, the one he was fantasizing about? Did you guys ever resolve that issue? For me personally, I would have a really hard time letting that go.

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