(Closed) Timeline

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1325 posts
Bumble bee

Im sure that it’s a huge disapointment to hear that he wants to push it back a bit further, but it’s not too much more time. So, Im understanding that he originally said that he would propose by September, but now he is saying sometime in the fall?  It can be torture waiting, but even eith one more month or two you will be ok. About what to say. I think by the time of the wedding if he hasn’t proposed very calmly bring it up. Mention how you had hoped to be engaged due to his timeline of September.Perhaps ask him what you should tell people since you aren’t quite sure what to say at that point.

Post # 5
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483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@wishingonadream04:  I think your feelings are prefectly valid.   I’ve felt consious about wedding planning alone especially since we have not officially been “engaged” and no ring if people look at my fingers.   This for you must feel a million times worse. 

Maybe if it doesn’t happen by the wedding he’ll get inspired to from the wedding and propose to you after? 

Post # 6
Member
600 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

Why couldn’t you say you thought it was by his birthday last night when he brought it up?  I agree with what Tunacupcakes said about asking him what to tell people who ask.  I did that with my SO & it cleared a lot of stuff up and made me feel a whole lot better.  To top it off, he had some really great things to say to people that even I totally bought into! 

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