(Closed) Timeline is off :D

posted 12 years ago in Waiting
Post # 18
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Newbee

“I love you so much and am going stir crazy not being able to say you’re my husband (eee that’s the first time i have ever typed those two words together”

Haha, I totally slip up and call the boyfriend a husband all the time. I think it weirds him out.

Post # 19
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

I think that was a great email to send! You remind me of myself, haha…I’ll do that to my Fiance all the time – send him random emails about things that have been driving me nuts that he hasn’t even given a second thought to…he usually just laughs at me too.

Post # 20
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Blushing bee

Thread high jacking! Spaniel: Congrats on your newly found bee-dom! Love that you have so many posts! Can I ask who you were before your bee moniker?

Post # 22
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Nice work crebre! I think I need to take some lessons from you!

Post # 24
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

awesome email!  i kind of had an epiphany like that at one time.  isn’t it such a nice feeling?!  thats so sweet how ya’ll are, its obvious he loves you and will propose when he’s ready, sounds like ya’ll have a great relationship.  it will come soon!!!

Post # 26
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Cre – I am soooooo there too! I know that if our lives had been perfect for the last two years, things in the engagement/wedding dept would have happened sooner. I just have to remind myself that we have been shelling out a lot of money (moving 3 times in two years, paying for months of constant physical therapy and accupuncture, travel). I also know in my heart that I have no desire to be with anyone else, so as painful and frustrating as it will be to watch friends continue to get engaged/married before us, I will probably wait as long as I need to for him.

Post # 27
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

@crebre: Thanks for the backstory! I am so happy that you’ve found clarity & I’m loving your “come what may” attitude 🙂

Post # 29
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

I’m inspired by your email and your gaining control by giving some of it up! You know, you’ll probably be happier with the proposal as well knowing that it will be a complete suprise and something that M does completely on his own, and at his own time.

I’m having a hard time waiting myself, honestly. I think that after the Boy and I have a talk about it (we’ve only had one prior to moving in) I may need to try your approach!

Post # 30
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Fabulous e-mail.  As you know, I have a deadline too, but it’s not one in which I’ll leave him if I didn’t get a ring.  Like you, I’d go on waiting.  Since we’re not living together and don’t plan to until after the wedding; there isn’t any rush.  Congrats for opening up to him and letting him know your feelings.  If he was feeling any pressure, I’m sure this eased it.  You’re probably going to get that engagement ring any day now.  Great way to let him know it’s not all about the ring and the wedding and that you LOVE HIM.  Congrats! 

Post # 31
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

YaY!!! You sound much more in control and relaxed with the whole situation

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