Post # 1
It looks like my shower and my bachelorette party will be one week apart – everyone is local, is it rude or presumptious to have them so close together? The guest lists will be very similar, with the exception of my mother and Future Mother-In-Law, who will both be invited to the shower.
In addition – I’m having a bridesmaids luncheon – do the Mom’s get invited to that as well?
Post # 3
No I don’t think it is rude to have the shower and bach party a week apart. I just was in a wedding and we had the bach party and the following weekend two showers. That was a little much to do three events in two weekends. The wedding was a week later and we had rehearsal dinner, bridal luncheon and wedding. So I think it is fine, sometimes it just happens that way with everyone’s schedules. Most people are understanding of that.
Yes you invite the mom’s to the bridal luncheon.
Post # 4
As long as everyone is local then its not a problem. We did a girls luncheon (she didn’t have a wedding party, just her sister) and we didn’t have the moms there. It was a very fun time for us all to meet up and chat and it would have been a little bit different atmosphere if the moms where there.
Post # 5
Not rude if it’s local. If anyone is not, just tell them ahead of time you totally understand if they can just make one.
Post # 6
I dont think its rude, especially since everyone is local! I would invite the moms to the luncheon too.