(Closed) Timing when you give birth…

posted 7 years ago in Babies
  • poll: Will you take a break from TTC so you don't give birth around the 2011 Holidays?
    Yes : (12 votes)
    26 %
    No : (31 votes)
    66 %
    Other - explain... : (4 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 3
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    4137 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    i’m not ttc yet, but i probably would take a break for a month or two. i wouldn’t want my kid to end up with a christmas birthday!

    Post # 5
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    720 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2009

    We’re due any day now but we did decide to start trying at a time that would hopefully keep us from delivering super close to Christmas.  It wasn’t for travel reasons but more because I didn’t want the baby’s birthday to be within days of Christmas.

    Post # 6
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    638 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2007

    My plan was to do this. We (Ok really *I*) timed our TTC so to hopefully have a Spring baby… or Summer if it took a little longer. I always said we’d stop to avoid a Late Nov, Dec, Jan, early Feb birthday. For my own little silly reasons. Yes the avoid a child having a ‘Christmas’ birthday – but not only for the child but also I don’t want the stress of birthday planning every year in the midst of the holiday hoopla πŸ™‚

    But then reality sets in and you’re on the 5th or 6th cycle of trying – and each month the disappoint increases – and the desire to ‘make it happen’ intensifies – and I’m not so sure we would have stopped.

    Luckily we didn’t have to make that decision on the first go around πŸ™‚ But I’m sure I’ll have the same mindset for take II πŸ™‚

    Post # 8
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    538 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I don’t think its a bad idea if you and your husband are early on TTC and really want to time things. 

    I wouldn’t do it based around traveling to see your family though.  Your husband is right, they would be more than happy to come see you if you are going to have a new baby! 

    Post # 10
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    7431 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    My birthday is a couple days before Christmas, but my mom’s birthday is even closer, so she always made sure to make my birthday a big deal since it was so close to Christmas and she knew what I would go through. Now, its the hubs turn to make sure my birthday is special! He fell a little short this year, but onyl due to money constraints

    Post # 11
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    2792 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    My birthday is very close to Christmas. I also share my birthday with my sister, who is 7 years older than I am. Double whammy.

    I don’t think it’s that big of a deal, as long as it’s made known throughout your son/daughter’s life that that is THEIR day, it’s not a “I’ll combine your birthday with your Christmas presents” day.

    In having our birthday so close to Christmas, it was always made a point to celebrate the two separately. If we were born at any other time of the year, that’s what would happen, so why not in late December as well? Also, since we share our birthday, our parents always made sure we had two separate cakes, etc and were individually sung to and recognized etc.

    It’s all what you make of it!

    Post # 13
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    828 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    ooh I WANT a Christmas baby πŸ™‚ 

    hoping in times out so that I do, hehe

    Post # 14
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    2142 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We are SO on the fence about this.

    In our circle of family and friends we have TWELVE birthdays in between November and December and then the holidays. Sigh.

    So ideally we do not want a November or December baby.

    However, given that we feel we will have complications I also do not want to throw two months away either.

    I guess it’s time my husband and I have heart to heart about this! Undecided

    Post # 15
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Haha, I’m the opposite — I want my kid to be born later in the year (September and beyond). There isn’t even a reason, really… my brother, sister, and I were all born late in the year and it just feels normal to me. For this reason, I’ve decided that I am going to go off my birth control around our one-year anniversary in September so that we might be pregnant around December/January-ish. Or something. This could totally not work but it’s what I’m thinking. πŸ™‚

    Post # 16
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Darling Husband and I aren’t trying to concieve yet but it would likely depend on how long we’d been trying.  I do think it would be nice to avoid having a child with a birthday around the holidays because I would hate to have a birthday around the holidays and wouldn’t want to do that to my own kids.  Maybe when we decide to start TTC, we’ll start in the early summer so that we have a while to be unsuccessful before we’d have a kid with a holiday birthday.

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