(Closed) Incommunicado MOH

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@SnowflakeDS: I haven’t had that issue, but I think you need to set a firm deadline. Try an email like:

Dear ____,

I know you are really busy with _____, _____ and _____. It has been hectic around here too! I really want you to be involved with choosing the dress colour, as it is important that you have a say. I know you likely won’t be able to give me your measurements for ordering right away, but I have to let (store name) know the colour within the next 48 hours in order to keep things on schedule.

I have attached the colour choices again in case they have been lost– I certainly have a hard time keeping up with emails these days! If you could look these over and email me back your preference before Monday night I would appreciate it. If not, unfortuantely I will have to order without your choice.

Thanks for understanding,

__your name__

 

You are NOT being a bridezilla and she is being ridiculous that she cannot answer an email about a COLOUR CHOICE in less than “a week or two”. You need to set a firm deadline, give her the choice to participate and go from there. You are not asking anything unrealistic.

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