(Closed) Tips for seducing a "goofy man"?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Are we talking about the same man?! I need to read the responses as well!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Honestly, my Darling Husband is the sameway.He can be really goofy/silly, whereas Im not-as much.

I used to be really “uptight” when it came to sex, as in, I always used to take it really seriously, try and be really meaningful and romantic/sexy, but I soon came to realise that you can be silly and goofy,and as my ex once said; “Theres nothing wrong with having a laugh and a giggle when your having sex, as long as you dont fart in my face!” lol,

 

I would just go all out, greet him at the door in full lingerie,have a laugh about it,and then demand he gets his a** up them stairs into the bedroom!

Laugh,have a giggle with it, and when your SO  laughs at corny things, laugh with him, hey, stuff is corny for a reason, cos its funny.

Post # 5
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Wannabee

GOTTA find his porn stash. See what’s in common, and do what the girl does. DON’T let him know you found his private porn collection.

Post # 6
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Wannabee

Email me if you need help finding it. I know every trick us guys use.

I never break the “Guy-Code” but I feel like this is an exception, because, I help a bro live out a fantasy.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Push him against a wall, drop to your knees and take his breath away. No time for goofy (not that I don’t appreciate a good laugh while we get busy)

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Grab his hand and pull him into the bedroom and give him a playful push on the bed.  (undress before/after as desired, undress him if you want/he likes).

Tell him the bedroom is lonely and needs company, ask if he’ll help cheer it up.

Say it looks like he’s wearing too many clothes, offer to help remove them.

Sit in his lap and tell him he turns you on, mention specific attributes.

Forget the soap opera/tv/movie “seduce”, this is real life.  Just letting him know you want him in a fun way is probably enough. 🙂

And nothing wrong with laughing, as long as you aren’t laughing at each other!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

To be blunt, a good BJ always puts my goofy man in the mood. After a couple minutes we can move on to whatever but its a good wat to start things off.

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper

I wouldn’t interpret laughter as a lack of arousal. We don’t do corny “seductive” stuff and sometimes something will make us laugh in the middle of things, but both our sex drives are high and we have a great time 🙂

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