(Closed) Tips to be the BEST GF EVER

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I don’t think he would be appalled at the idea of you just showing up in a dominatrix outfit (at least no guy I know would be)…. I think you should do that. I once wore nothing but an apron and heels and that went well. Maybe you can try something like that.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

How about getting him little presents to show that you care? My SO likes Gatorade, so every now and then I’ll pick one up at the gas station on my way home. It may seem little but it shows him I’m thinking about him Laughing

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I bring him little surprises, too! I brought him a carrotcake cupcake (his favorite!) after his last business trip! Then I brought him dessert from my school’s V-Day party!

I was going to surprise him with a (fire engine red, see-through lace nightie tonight… But I’m not feeling terribly inclined at the moment. Since he pretended that today wasn’t Valentine’s Day.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

A few years ago for  Valentine’s day I bought SO a new electric razor and tied it with a bow and plugged it in for him to see since his other one was crappy. This year I made him massage gift certificates. I always try to pick him up little things that he likes, like chunky monkey ice cream or a candy bar he likes. I leave him notes sometimes just so to brighten his day and I always kiss him goodbye in the morning & send him texts throughout the day

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@anon00:  Would he be cool with you taking his pants off in perhaps the kitchen, or living room, and giving him the best head of his life?  Is that too risque for him?  I like surprise fellatio.  So does my husband…

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee

I always buy him some of his favorite snacks here and there, make some of his favorite dinners without letting him know what Im making, and there are a few little odds-and-ends gifts we give each other from time to time, nothing pricey but definaately has thought put into it.

My man loves those “librarian glasses” and he asked me to get them(I am nearsighted and need glasses) so when I got the next pair with my insurance for free, I got that kind.

I wear them in bed sometimes, cause he likes them, and the pigtails for that “schoolgirl” look, and he has a thing for thigh-high stockings. So I go to Spencers and buy a new pair in a different color/pattern and suprise him with them.

 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@anon00:  My Fiance came home from a long trip and I was in lingere and a trench coat. He talks about it to this day!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@anon00:  “Vanilla” I feel like I am dating this man as well. Lol. That being said – read the 5 love languages. It was an eyeopener for me. ๐Ÿ™‚ Now I have all sorts of new ideas on how to do things that he will notice and understand that I did them out of love.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Take pictures or let him take pictures of you. Obviously you just have to be careful where you save them ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

How I am is: I dont stress over the little things. Men hate when you nag. When I was having sex in my previous relationship my Fiance and I both agreed to be celibate until the wedding. I never denied my mate sex even if we had an argument I was with him for 12 years.

Men are sensitive but society has dictated how men should act strong and not show emotions but we have created an environment that allows him to be vulnerable and safe. What do I mean? I buy him gifts, flowers, and tell him I love him everyday. It feels good to know that he can say “come with me and what TV I want you to hold me” and vice versa.

Dont get me wrong he spoils me just as much but I am proud of the relationship we have created an environment of love so he can be sensitive as he needs to be and tell me what he wants or needs and vice versa.

My Fiance is my best friends and when he is comes home(military) we do everything together shop, cook, eat, etc.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Bring him lunch to work; put a cute note in it

Order some pizza, buy beer, and let him pick a movie/ show to watch

Buy some rose petals, sprinkle around the house, and surprise him in some lingerie with champagne

Write him a love letter

Put candles all over the house and have them lit when he gets home

 

possibilities are endlessss ๐Ÿ˜‰

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