Tired and confused

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Choose one answer...
    Run... Girl..... Run!!! : (108 votes)
    99 %
    Stay and it will get better with time : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Go to counseling : (0 votes)
    IDK, I'm in same situation : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
    Member
    7813 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I didn’t make it all the way through this admittedly but definitely RUN.

    ETA: ok i read the whole thing. I don’t see one example in your entire post of your boyfriend being anything other than a raging asshole who treats you terribly. There is literally no silver lining here, nothing good about this mofo, not even the slightest hint of something verging on a single redeeming quality. Get out!

    Post # 3
    Member
    265 posts
    Helper bee

    120% leave and don’t look back. This isn’t a partnership. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    699 posts
    Busy bee

    mochachic :  My advice is to run as well but I don’t understand how you went from two jobs to one? Did he force you to quit? I would try to find employment ASAP in order to have some sort of means to support yourself and leave and don’t go back.

    Post # 5
    Member
    5916 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Did I miss the part where he ejaculates diamonds? Because I’m not understanding how staying with a guy like this is even a question. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    1950 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2017

    I read your whole post. My one and only question is, “Why would you stay?” There’s nothing in this relationship for you except wasted time and youth, and not advancing career or money wise.

    Post # 7
    Member
    791 posts
    Busy bee

    I don’t think you need any advice. Read your own words. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    4910 posts
    Honey bee

    Can you get on unemployment so you have some income? Can you stay with family or friends? 

    Post # 11
    Member
    428 posts
    Helper bee

    Ok I’m exhausted reading this! How old are you and he? Regardless, RUN. The other bees are very thoughtful in their responses and I’m sure will give you great practical advice. 

    Please stop wasting your life with this person. It doesn’t sound like you even really love him you’re just afraid of him and stuck. Please GTFO. Whereabouts are you located, there may be help available to you. 

    Post # 12
    Member
    10020 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Lost me at “sneaking to the casino.”  Drop him, he’s using you.  You deserve so much better!

    Wait, why are you unemployed now, if you don’t mind sharing that?

    Post # 14
    Hostess
    3890 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    I just don’t understand at all…there is literally nothing good about this and you let this guy ruin your life. You went from having 2 cars and a good job to being trapped in his house. You are at rock bottom. And now you need to get the hell out of this situation and get your life back. He is a horrible abusive human. You don’t deserve this. There is so much more waiting for you when you get away from him. Go get your life back . 

    Post # 15
    Member
    676 posts
    Busy bee

    I will admit I also read one or two lines and failed to continue because my mind was made up that quick. I would break it off personally. 

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