(Closed) Tired of being asked/told that I am pregnant, almost starting to believe it

posted 6 years ago in Wellness
Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@accorn:  I think it’s more the way the dress hangs in that photo.

I definitely have some excess tummy fat and I was indirectly told that I was pregnant (someone asked my SO)… ugh. It made me feel pretty terrible!

 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

People can be so insensitive! But you know it’s kinda funny/ironic that I’ve had people ask me if I was pregnant before because they thought they saw a baby bump (no matter how much weight I lose, my stomach flab sticks around *sigh*), but now that I am actually 3 1/2 months pregnant those same people tell me I don’t look pregnant at all and question me on my eating habits. I swear, you just can’t win with some people!

And some people just assume that if you’re wearing anything empire waist or flowy you must be trying to hide a baby bump. Although I find it odd that usually my random rude customers who would ask me this aren’t exactly skinny themself, so it seems really hypocritical of them to want to judge me for not having washboard abs.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

People are so rude. I’m sorry that you are being asked this.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I’ve put on some belly fat lately and word has gotten around my family NOT to ask if I’m pregnant!  Ugh.  I seriously look about 5 months along.  I would lke to be, so it’s not fun.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Your tummy isn’t bad at all! You should see mine…thanks to my endometriosis, I feel like I always have a least a 3-4 mo. preggo bloat going. :/ I usually just give them a Look, with a capital “L” and they stop.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

People are stupid. Ignore them. 

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