(Closed) Tired of being the one who always puts out the effort.

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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3162 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Actually, from personal experience I can tell you that blonde b*tches have the most fun 😉

I totally hear you, though. Sometimes I meet people and I’m like HOW DOES THIS PERSON HAVE FRIENDS? Or people at work – how did this person get to where they are being like this? I think you’ve just gotta roll with it. My dad once told me something amazing in response to me saying something to the effect of “I feel like I’m still in high school with these people.” His response was “Well where do you think all the a**holes from high school GO? They don’t disappear. They end up in the real world just like you, and they are still the same a**holes they were in high school.” So wise, that man.

Post # 5
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

Yes, for some reason it’s easier to scapegoat or leave out a nice person than it is a loudmouth jerk. I have become less nice as I get older and as a result am actually getting more respect from friends and family! Go figure..

Post # 6
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1280 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

damn straight queenbee! i always play ms nice lady, but about 2 years ago, i stopped that sh** and it feels so good!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I completely understand what you mean! I’ve found as I’ve gotten older that if someone doesn’t think I like them, they’re really nice to me. It makes no sense, but it’s true. It’s happened six times that I can count so far….

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