(Closed) Tired of “waiting?”

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Every minute of every day. ugh it totally sucks!!! I try not to bring it up because it is VERY close. Were actually going tomorrow to look at a possible venue just to get some ideas for planning, so its gonna be kinda difficult not to bring it up tomorrow! But as long as I can come on here and vent, along with reading some books about waiting, it helps.

Post # 5
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55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I just finished The Truth Behind the Rock, it was pretty good, and I am now starting His Cold Feet which is great so far! I also heard Why Men Marry Bitches is also a good one which I may need to pick up if I’m still waiting when I finish this one. They really help me step back and put things in perspective before I breakdown to my bf. Good Luck to us all!

Post # 6
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7300 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I know how bad it sucks. Oh and WMMB is a great book!

Post # 8
Member
72 posts
Worker bee

I really am.  I want it so bad and I can’t even express that.  It’s so discouraging that it still has not happened.

Now that I know that the wait is not about a financial reason (and that’s what he said the only reason was), the only reason I can think of is that he just doesn’t want to get engaged right now. Or maybe even anytime soon.

So it sucks that I really, really do.

Post # 9
Member
73 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m right there with ya, ladies.  He’s traveling for work a lot lately, which sucks because he’s gone, but good because it’s way easier to keep my trap shut!

I’m holding out for the Valentine’s Day challenge (or something very close…), so setting small goals like that are helpful when really all I want to do is say “AAAGGGGGHHHHHH WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU, GET ON WITH IT!!!

And pisces36, i know exactly what you mean!  I know the finances aren’t an issue, so I have no idea what the hold up is….  I am DYING to say something.

Good luck!

Post # 10
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3304 posts
Sugar bee

@MaggieMae2609: I am doing the V-Day challenge also and I think that is the ONLY reason why I haven’t bitched about waiting yet.

OP- I am right there with you- some days are worse that others…. just take it all one day at a time. We are here feeling everything right along with you.

Post # 11
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17 posts
Newbee

OMG i felt like i was reading about myself, i AM GOING CRAZY!!!! it will be 4 years in Sept 2013 for me and my Boyfriend or Best Friend (tired of saying boyfriend, i feel like im too old for this boyfriend marlark).

I feel sometimes really angry, sometimes really sad, sometimes i just don’t care, and now ihave lost all enthusiasm to marry him, for me though i am really vocal and i told him how i felt, i even wrote my points down on paper so that it was in black and white, and we discussed them, all because i got to the end of the line and was like let me know now if this is what you want, or i will go and find someone on the same page as me, he assured me that it is what he wanted and he didnt know i felt like that, so maybe it is just a matter of speaking to him and telling him how you feel! because my bf said he didn’t realise and was absolutly stunned by it all.

guys are really simple and sometimes if they don’t know how your thinking they just carry on as normal.

Anyway i told him nov 2012, and i’m still waiting on a thin thread, because by the end of the year if it doesn’t happen im outter here as much as i love him, there are others out there!

Post # 12
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17 posts
Newbee

for now those books sound really good, so i’m going to invest in them! thanks girls!

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