(Closed) Tired of Waiting

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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8738 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

Have you been wedding/engagement focused lately? More irritable? Having more discussions?

All those things could be pushing him away. I know when I went through those crazy waiting periods, Fiance (then BF) definitely was more distant.

When I just moved forward with my life, and hung out with him, with friends, did what made ME happy then HE would sometimes bring up marriage to discuss.

As hard as it is, try to “forget” about the proposal/marriage right now and focus on just being happy.

Remind him (by being your original self) why he wants to marry you and spend the rest of his life with you.

I was with Fiance 6 1/2 years before he proposed (our 7 year anniversary is Monday). Things got really rough when I started demanding a proposal and timeframe.

Once I backed off and started being ME again, he became much more loving and went back to being the boyfriend I loved.

Post # 4
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4755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If he says fall you’ve got a ways to go… why not enjoy your time until fall. If it doesn’t happen at fall then you’ll need further discussion.

Also, I really advise against checking up on him. 1) it’s going to ruin the surprise 2) it’s soo not cool to snoop unless you suspect cheating (even then… I’m not too sure). 3) the second you find nothing you’re all up in arms thinking what the hell, when that happens he probably just pulls away…

Post # 5
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3305 posts
Sugar bee

I am so sorry *hugs* give him until the fall as he requests and try to be patient =( which is very hard, I know.

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