(Closed) tired of waiting

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
7606 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

If someone cheated on me and then backed out of marrying me twice, I wouldn’t be waiting around for him to do it a third time.  Sorry. 🙁

Post # 4
Member
501 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Seriously, there is someone out there who would love you and be more than excited to marry you.

Post # 5
Member
509 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

You deserve someone who will love you & want to marry you as much as you want them. I know you care about this guy because you’ve invested in him but you are worth way more than that.

Post # 6
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270 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

I’m sorry.  He sounds so flighty.  I am not trying to discourage you, but I don’t being married to him would be a good thing for you.  It sounds like the first proposal was out of panic after cheating.  There is no stability with this guy, and getting married won’t change anything.  

Post # 7
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1718 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m sorry but I wouldn’t bet on him marrying you.  I was engaged to a loser who cheated on my and proposed to keep me around.  He told me that he was going to do a lot of things. i.e. find a good job; marry me soon.  Nothing happened at all.  You should cut your losses now.  You deserve better!

 

Post # 8
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3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I don`t get how you he expects you to go back to waiting when he already gave you a ring. You been more then fair!

Post # 9
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1188 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

First and foremost, the ring symbolizes the commitment he wants to make because he loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you, and only you. It shouldn’t be a way to pacify you or a way to say, oops I messed up. The back and forth ring deal is a red flag to me. I think you’ve been more than forgiving and patient but you have to draw the line somewhere on what you are willing to put up with. 

Post # 10
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9887 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

 @carolinagurl72:  

“i think hes just playing with me …’

Um, yeah.  I think you’re right.

Post # 11
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107 posts
Blushing bee

Adding my voice to the others. Hate to say it this way, but he has gotten used to treating you a certain way because you have always stuck around. You deserve way better. Don’t accept less than you (and you know, most humans) deserve.

Post # 13
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107 posts
Blushing bee

I know it’s hard and it probably will suck for a while, but think about how you will feel a year from now.Good luck! Hugs!

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