Post # 42
I’m just too lazy to worry about hiding my pooping from Fiance. If he’s brushing his teeth and I need to take a poop, I’m going in and taking a poop. If I am umm ‘sick’ and thought it was going to be too much of a visual/sound thing then I’d close the door and do it in private. But a regular, ho-hum poop? I guess bodily things like that just don’t bother me. But then again, Fiance always closes the door when he poops. Guess I’m just ‘lax’ about it!
Post # 43
Not….openly. I voted #1 only, and that’s only if one of us is in the shower and the other has to pee, so there’s running water and a shower curtain between us. That’s as far as it goes.
Post # 44
Seriously? He’s going to watch me give birth x number of times, he’s taken me to the hospital after I’ve passed out and vomited all over myself, and I’m supposed to not be comfortable pooping in front of him?
@bearlove: I agree!
Post # 45
I guess I am the odd one out. Neither of us cares if we pee or poop with the other. It is just not a big deal. I also just had his baby and there was no modesty on my end I had tons of people in there. What would you do if you pooped on the delivery table? Not let him watch his child be born if there is a possibility he might see poop?
I guess I am a little more lax about it because for years I always had a potty partner. When my oldest was a toddler at daycare they had potty partners. I had a heck of a time making him understand my potty was private time. I finally gave up and when he was old enough he understood.
PS What do you ladies do if you have an upset stomache? Hide in the bathroom and pray he never notices?
Post # 46
Only number 1. Number 2 isn’t really meant to be shared with others.
Post # 47
@StormyRose: I totally get the child birth thing. If sh*t happens, sh*t happens. Can’t speak for anyone else but in other, non-emergency situations, if I don’t have to I’m not going to. As far as the sickness? We work crazy opposite schedules so I’ve never had to worry about him being around. But I can’t imagine it will last forever. But to me that is in the “emergency situation” category and not “I had a choice and chose to do it in front of him anyways” category.
Post # 48
Ha, this thread is pretty entertaining. I’ve never had qualms about letting him see me pee, and vice versa. It happened pretty early in our relationship, too. I guess I’ve always just had the attitude that if he’s been all up in there already, who cares? As for poop, I usually shut the door but we routinely will open the door if we need to talk to each other while the other’s on the pot. I guess we could wait five minutes, but it’s just not a big deal in our relationship.