(Closed) TMI: I Can't orgasm? Help?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Worker bee

How about oral? Have you tried being on top?

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

Funny, that’s how I am (except the whole open about sexuality part) but I think for two orthree years I could never finish… now I do but only if I’m on top. I don’t know why that seems to be only thing that works and though I try other positions that’s the one I always goo back to 😛 

The first time I tried it just to try it, didn’t think I’d actually finish though. But within a few tries, I got it Lol. It took me by surprise , I thought it’d feel good but not like that. Like my friend said, when you have one you’ll know. Though after that it took me a while to get the hang of it, I’d finish on occasion but it wasn’t expected. Over time I learned what workedand what didn’t and now I get it every time ha ha.

Though for other positions I don’t know either ;-(

 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

@lawyerchick13:  I have the exact same problem. There’s one position that gets me going, but then it’s just like…. nope.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

have you tried having a few drinks before hand?  I don’t have the same issue when masterbating but I’ve noticed that if I’ve had a few before he goes down, I can orgasm much easier.  I wonder if this may help? YOu don’t want to be drunk, just maybe a little buzzed to let loose?

Post # 8
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Worker bee

@lawyerchick13:  I would say try being on top more. That’s what works best for me because of the angle and friction

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@lawyerchick13:  the easiest way for me to orgasm is missionary, when I wrap my legs around him and grind up when he pushes in.  Have you tried that?

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2000

Are you on any medications? I ask, because some definitely inhibit orgasm.

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2013

Easiest for me is reverse cowgirl, he can support you if you lean back, and your hands are free to help you finish!

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