(Closed) TMI-I swallowed for the first time tonight……

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 32
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

It really doesn’t bother me too much. I don’t really like it, but it’s not the worst thing ever (and I am very picky about what I put in my mouth for reference lol). It would almost be worse to spit it out because, well I assume I wouldn’t just spit it up anywhere, I’d have to run to the sink or something… and that way I’d have it in my mouth for a full 20 seconds or so lol. If I just swallow it it’s gone in like 2 seconds. Meh it ain’t that bad.

Post # 33
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Glad he took it okay…

My Darling Husband would be really upset and self conscious if I threw up after doing that!

Post # 34
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Helper bee

@sheepandbear:  lol. You are in a great relationship and his reaction is perfect.

One time I swallowed for my SO and I felt sick for the rest of the night. I kept lying in bed trying to blame it on something we ate since we’d gone to a sketchy Mexican spot (not the cleanest but the food is out of this world!) earlier in the evening. In the middle of the night I began getting literally sick and he got up to check on me. When he came into the bathroom he looked at me and said “Guess all of my sexy is just too much for you!” lol.  In the moment I’m pretty sure I looked like a beet but now we laugh about it all. If you can’t laugh about this stuff you’d never try!

Thanks for letting me know I’m not alone!!

Post # 36
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Helper bee

@retreadbride:  My SO and I had a chat about ‘flavor’ one time. I can’t speak for OP but I don’t mind the taste, for me its the warmth and texture. So I told him and he completely understood. However he always claims that he likes the way I taste. I think if you both talk about what you want you can have a sex life that you both enjoy without making anyone dread something/feel stressed about something. Plus if I’m not into it my SO always knows. It’s why I only swallow when I really want to, or am motivated by how bad he wants me to. 

Post # 37
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Buzzing bee

@lovesweetlove:  Same here. The texture just completely throws me off. I ALWAYS end up throwing up. So for me.. swallowing doesn’t mean less mess, it means more!

Post # 38
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Helper bee

@Sunflower–girl:  Well, quite frankly, I can personally attest that my “stuff” tastes better than his, or any other guy’s I’ve tried.  The only time I haven’t minded/gagged was with a girl.

Post # 40
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

For those implying that it’s unfair for us not to swallow when the guy goes down on us: It’s not like throwing up after swallowing is a choice, people! I think most of us would prefer to be able to swallow it “like a shot.” When I gagged after swallowing and felt queasy the rest of the night, it wasn’t a “mind over matter” situation since it caught me by surprise, so I wasn’t expecting anything in the first place. I’d try again since that was a long time ago, but I feel sorry for the OP and can’t imagine her SO faulting her for having a visceral physical reaction to his cum.

Post # 41
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@pookiesmom:  That’s a good point. 

I think not liking to swallow is a thing a lot of women experience.  In fact, most of the men I dated and were sexual with told me I’m unusual for extremely enjoying giving oral and swallowing.  I’m also one of the supposedly rare types who can orgasm within two minutes simply through intercourse.  I think it must be a physical thing because most of my female friends have told me they aren’t like me in that way.  But even my nipples are extremely sensitive, which is a blessing during sex but a curse during a mammogram, let me tell ya. 

I read once that the capacity to enjoy sex is tied to physiological differences in human bodies.  I always joke with Darling Husband that I can orgasm through eye contact, lol.  😉

Post # 42
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Helper bee

@Sunflower–girl:  Biting my tongue, here, to avoid the snarkiness that just wants to come out.  I will say, if he doesn’t like it, I’m not going to twist his arm.  He also knows I expect him to be upfront about his feelings on things.  In that case, I will simply have to live without him going down on me, an act which I’ve never a particular fan of, from anyone, anyway.  Oy vey iz mir. Laughing

Post # 43
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Bumble bee

@Chaoslight:  I really do not understand why this is getting you so bent out of shape.  Really.  I stated my opinion.  My opinion doesn’t affect your life in any way.

Post # 45
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Helper bee

@sheepandbear:  when i first read the title, i laughed. then i clicked the post, read you threw up a couple of times and felt bad, but then laughed again reading the rest of it. 😡 haha sorry, you sound like me when i first tried.

the easiest way ive been able to swallow now is just to deepthroat him and let it slide down my throat, that way i dont have to taste it. your guy took it well, mine felt bad that i didnt like his taste. it takes some getting used to, but not having to run and spit after is well worth it.

Post # 46
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Bee Keeper

I know how you feel..I never threw up from doing it but I always felt like I was going to which is why I dont do it now ever.

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