Post # 1
wasnt sure how to phrase that so ill try to explain it a bit better
nipple sucking, nipple er ,,,tweaking? touching? or breast squeezing or any variation of these things.
for me…my nipples are ubersensitive, if theyre gently licked or *very* gently sucked it feels good. any harder sucking or touching hurts like a mofo. and depending on the time of the month, very gentle cupping of my breasts is fine – any kind of squeezing, hell no
and i must admit, my fi can be a little too rough with them for my liking. hes getting a LOT better now, but it took me ages to make him understand that theyre that senstive, and its not just that i dont enjoy them being touched hard. and hes a breast man. i know some women like a lot of breast play, but not me!
and he felt rejected when i got to the point where id tense if he approached my breast.
you know what the worlds biggest mood breaker is?
when a man gets overexcited starts sucking on your nipples hard. and you smack him over the head and say “hell no that hurts. if you cant touch them properly you cant touch them at all”. (ok pmt grumpiness + sensitivity + feeling ‘we’ve had this conversation before)
Post # 3
@newname_99: That last part is funny. I agree that can be a mood killer
Post # 4
Haha. SO gets a bit over excited with my nipples too. I hit him the other day, first, time, ever, normally I just pull away or say “ow”/”no”/variation of. But I actually HIT him, I felt so bad. It was a reflex I think.
Post # 5
Actually, mine are on the opposite side of the spectrum. Not a lot of sensitivity so I don’t even really feel anything unless SO plays rough lol. I’m sorry about your situation though, I’d always wanted more sensitive nipples but now I guess it’s a blessing in disguise?
Post # 6
Nipples are a fine art……lol
I think its a learning process and he will have to learn that your not trying to be mean or kill the mood, rather if you do it like ______( insert your favorite niplle thing) you get turned on and everyone will be happy.
Or maybe nipple shields? LOL
Post # 7
I strongly dislike boob-play. It reminds me of breast feeding and that is the last thing I want to think about when we’re about to get it on. I rarely let my husband put his mouth anywhere near my nipples. Ew.
Post # 8
I’m a nipple girl. Gets me going fast and steady.
However, they must be finessed. The right speed, strength, and frequency.
Post # 9
@ladyartichoke: I’m like you. I need it rough. =)
Post # 10
Not my cup of tea. Breast rubbing (grabbing if its one of “those” nights ) can be fun, but anything nipple specific…meh.
Post # 11
I get more turned on when he is sucking on the nipples. The harder the better
Post # 12
I love breast play, it is pretty much essential to getting me turned on. I really like rough breast play too, as in biting, grabbing etc
Post # 13
@Mrs.babycat: Same! Definitely needed to get me turned on as well.
Post # 14
I love it – I can orgasm from breast/nipple stimulation. If he gets too rough I tell him to be gentle and he backs off.
Post # 15
I definitely enjoy breast play. All of it! I’m only super sensitive during my time of the month, so he usually gets a dirty look for squeezing too hard.
Post # 16
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No, I am way too sensitive. If something touches a nipple wrong, a nerve in my tongue goes crazy and it is so uncomfortable! Seriously, it sucks. Fiance always asks what on earth I’m going to do about breastfeeding. No clue, hun. No clue.