Post # 1
our wedding day is getting closer!! I just realized that there are just 78 days to go (at least for me)! Even only 71 upto our legal marriage! Ahhh, this is getting real really really fast! What is on your to-do lists next? For me, meeting our potographer and florist next monday, preparing the seating chart, waiting for the last RSVPs, etc. Are you all in time with planning? Do some of you already have light panic attacks?
Post # 3
I am a June bride and although i have a LOT of stress i think i have evevrything controllled..if i stop adding this or that “little detail”, that is..
Post # 4
I have to learn to breathe 🙂 I got out my to-do list, got to check a few things off and I think everything is under control… Just finishing the BMs and GMs gifts, and then the bonnboniere lollies to do… I think hehe 85 more days to panic and find more to do thou hehe
Post # 5
I was super stressed last week as everyone was at me to send the invites (semi destination wedding, people need to book accommodation) so I sent them on a week where my work was insane, my wedding vendors were emailing me constantly and I was very sick… out of 23 invites 5 of them had mistakes and 2 were sent to the completely wrong address
Lesson: dont do ANYTHING if you are having a bad week. It will only result in more stress!
My to do list:
Get legal paper signed (being done tomorrow)
Get the boys their suits (being made in Bali, going there in a month)
Organise transport to take us from reception to accommodation on night of wedding
Do tastings and organise menu (next weekend)
Pick up rings (should be ready next week)
Do first dress fitting (in a month)
Everything else is done, its all little things now like doing the slideshow, seating chart, printing programs, making eye spy game, finalising cake decoration, finalising music and paying everyone. I am hoping that it will be relatively smooth sailing until the week before where I know that no matter how organised I am, I will be stressing!
Post # 6
@ShellVee: Learn to breath is a good advice;-)
I’m from Germany and fortunately we don’t have to care about bridesmaid’s dresses or groomsmen’s suits. We just have one best man (best friend of my fiance) and one Maid/Matron of Honor (my sister) and they’ll wear what they want to;-) Cake is ordered and we already had the tasting, the bufet is almost done just the wine needs to be picked, the flowers are ordered, the hair and make-up trial is done… I think I don’t have to panic. First dress fitting is at the beginning of June. I have to decide what shawl I’m going to wear. Hope that doesn’t cost a fortune! And I have to admit I’m a little bit afraid of the costs for alterations of my dress. But all in all, everthings is going to be fine:-))
Post # 7
OMG yes! I told Fiance yesterday.. we have less than 3 months. OMG WE HAVE LESS THAN THREE MONTHS!!! He didn’t get my panic, but my to-do list is miles long at this point. Good news is that all of the big things are done, everyone is booked and it’s just the details that are being ironed out right now.
Post # 8
I feel like there is tons of time left! I’ve got all the big ticket things taken care of and now it’s just smaller, more detailed stuff such as my DIY projects, music playlist, seating charts… etc. Other than that I’m just getting excited at this point, not stressed.
Post # 9
I’m up to my ears in DIY 🙂 and there are still a few invites that i REALLY must send ASAP.
Post # 10
This month I have to do:
final payment on Fiance suit which cost 3xs more then my dress, such a diva lol
payment on flowers
meeting with wedding planner
hair and make up trial
buy our booze
final payment on wedding cake
Make our will call sign (baseball tickets)
Lots of stuff but the good thing is all my little stuff is done and out of the way!
Post # 11
Getting really excited….So thankful that my groom is so involved in the whole process and I don’t have to stress at all…..63 days and 18 hours left!
Post # 12
Ordered fiances ring today! Finally, one last thing to do.
-Figure out wedding cake
-Order candy/figure out dessert bar
-Finish up DIY projects (so many!)
-Continue to work on my parents backyard!
-Figure out how to dump my Maid/Matron of Honor for being such a troll.
Im ready for this shit to be over!
Post # 13
Yeah im feeling the pressure too. We have appointments every week till the wedding it seems. Im reallly nervous about finishing up all of my DIY’s. And i have only recieved half of my RSVP’s. Good luck to everyone!
Post # 14
I definitely feel like i’m running out of time!!! I went to our florist today to pay the deposit and they lost our contract!!!! Soooo, I need to find a new florist ASAP
Post # 15
Definitely still have lots to do and definitely feeling stressed about it. I need to get off of here and start working on my to-do list this morning!
Post # 16
So running out of time. Next big things on my list are engagement photos (next week) and first dress fitting (week after that). And I need to figure out all my accessories before the dress fitting, ugh. Fun times. 🙂