(Closed) To ask or not to ask..a little long

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
9723 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

5 years? Yes definitely ask him. You deserve to know. 

Post # 3
1221 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

jenanigans:  Yes, you guys should discuss it. Make it more of a casual conversation where you both talk about what your ideas are rather than just asking him about his thoughts on a timeline.

Post # 5
9547 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

Why not? I mean, you obviously don’t want to go in with “Why are we not engaged!!!! When are we getting engaged!!! I’m freaking out!!! Propose to me right now!!!!” But it doesn’t sound like you’re anywhere near that. You guys have talked about this stuff, so I don’t see any issue with talking about the next steps. Let him know where you stand and ask where he is. Then go from there!

Post # 6
36 posts

My favorite line – “hey, we talk about spending the rest of our lives together, having kids, etc.  What are we waiting for?” 

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